Inside The Messy Psychology Of Sexual Double Standards – Cheating’s OK For Me, But Not For Thee
David M. Buss, The University of Texas at Austin College of Liberal Arts
Sexual double standards – in which women and men are judged differently for the same sexual behavior – will probably sound familiar to most people.
The classic one centers on multiple sexual partners: Men who are promiscuous are lauded as “studs,” “lotharios” or “ladies’ men,” while women who have a lot of sex get called “sluts” or “whores.” Men who cheat on their wives aren’t exactly praised, but they’ll often get a pass. Women who do the same, on the other hand, risk sullying their social reputations.
There’s a different sexual double standard, however, and it’s one that exists between two partners.
In my new book, “When Men Behave Badly: The Hidden Roots of Sexual Deception, Harassment, and Assault,” I spend so...