Monday, June 8

RELATIONSHIPS

The Myth Of One-Night Stands And Long-Term Relationships – Mating Market Theory
No Comments
RELATIONSHIPS

The Myth Of One-Night Stands And Long-Term Relationships – Mating Market Theory

Popular wisdom and established evolutionary science hold that the sexes seek fundamentally different relationships: men want short-term, no-strings-attached relationships whereas women value longer-term, loyal partnerships. The explanation generally comes down to biological differences between men and women. Because women invest more in reproduction than men do – think pregnancy, morning sickness and stretchmarks – being picky becomes important because choosing poorly can be costly, even devastating. However, for men, reproduction may only entail a brief sexual liaison and a bit of sperm – there are potentially no long-term costs. This calculus has been built into our psychology, many argue. Think about it more carefully, though. Where do all the women sleeping with these guys come from? S...
Read More
People Post ‘Couple Photos’ As Their Social Media Profile Pictures – Why Is That?
No Comments
DATING

People Post ‘Couple Photos’ As Their Social Media Profile Pictures – Why Is That?

As you scroll through your Facebook news feed, you see it: Your friend has posted a new profile picture. But instead of a picture of just your friend, it’s a couple photo – a picture of your friend and their romantic partner. “Why would someone choose that as their profile picture?” you wonder. We are social psychology researchers interested in understanding people’s behavior in close relationships and on social media. Our research and that of other scholars provides insight into why people use these types of “I’m part of a couple!” displays on social media. Choosing profile photos that include their romantic partner, posting their relationship status and mentioning their partner in their updates can all be signs of how people feel in their relationship – and may send an important message ...
Read More
A 4-Step Maintenance Plan To Help Keep Your Relationship Going Strong
No Comments
RELATIONSHIPS

A 4-Step Maintenance Plan To Help Keep Your Relationship Going Strong

Early on, relationships are easy. Everything is new and exciting. You go on dates, take trips, spend time together and intentionally cultivate experiences that allow your relationship to grow. Then, somewhere along the way, life happens. There’s a little work involved in happily ever after. Désirée Fawn/Unsplash, CC BY One study on married couples in their 30s and 40s found that their marital quality declined over the course of a year, in terms of love, passion, satisfaction, intimacy and commitment. Too often, people shrug their shoulders and convince themselves this is just how it goes. Switching to relationship autopilot feels justifiable when you’re short on time, low on energy and must focus on other priorities like careers and kids. This is when doubt can creep in and tempt you to h...
Read More
Ghosts Of Romantic Pasts Are So Tough To Exorcise For Some
No Comments
RELATIONSHIPS

Ghosts Of Romantic Pasts Are So Tough To Exorcise For Some

A friend once grumbled that, given the choice, she’d rather see her ex miserable than herself happy. Few things in life are as traumatic as the end of a long-term, romantic relationship. Nonetheless, many people are able to eventually recover and move on relatively unscathed. Others, like my friend, aren’t so lucky. Even years later, they remain mired in the pain of the experience. Any reminder of their former partner – whether it’s a casual mention in conversation or a Facebook photo – can elicit profound feelings of sadness, anger and resentment. Why is it that some people continue to be haunted by the ghosts of their romantic pasts, struggling to let go of the pain of rejection? In new research, my colleague Carol Dweck and I found that rejection actually makes some people redefine them...
Read More
Your Relationship Status Tallies With How Well You Sleep Survey Shows
No Comments
RELATIONSHIPS

Your Relationship Status Tallies With How Well You Sleep Survey Shows

A new survey of Australian adults has found your relationship status can impact how well you sleep. We know based on previous research that sleeping next to someone can help you sleep better – but this is the first study to look at how the type of relationship you’re in might impact your sleep. We found that people who live with a regular partner tend to fall asleep faster than people who have occasional or casual partners, or who are single. It’s not all bad news for people who aren’t in an ongoing relationship though – the amount of sleep people got overnight wasn’t related to relationship status. Perchance to dream and stay healthy It’s generally recommended you should get seven to nine hours of sleep a night. However, about 40% of Australians report inadequate sleep. Not getting enoug...
Read More
10 Tips To Make Your First Date A Success As A Single Mother
No Comments
DATING

10 Tips To Make Your First Date A Success As A Single Mother

For single moms, going on a date can be a difficult decision. However, if you are determined, you can make it work with almost no difficulty. In this article, we are going to share 10 dating tips that you can follow as a single mom. If you are a single mother, dating can be an altogether different experience for you. However, there is nothing to worry about. With proper guidance and some solid strategies in place, you can meet your date a success. Let's read some solid tips to get better in this department. Set a plan First of all, you should have a plan during your lunch hour as this is the time of the day when you can focus better. In fact, these hours are ideal as you won't be in rush. Take it easy Although single moms have a lot of courage, they are capable of doing things alone. Ther...
Read More
In This Fast Paced World You Must Flirt Fast To Get That Girl
No Comments
ATTRACTION

In This Fast Paced World You Must Flirt Fast To Get That Girl

In the world we live in today everything goes by fast. Communication, the internet, everything. Why should dating and flirting be any different? The answer is it should not and is not. IF you take too long to approach a girl, she will be long gone. You have to move move move. Everything is fast and your flirting techniques had better be fast to. In this article I shall discuss some ways (quickly... we must move fast) for some fast flirting. Fast Flirting the speedy approach When you see a girl who may be interested you should approach right away. Give a look and a smile back (your first fast flirt attack) and approach. Speed here is the most important part. The longer you wait the more your nerves will begin to get to you. As this happens, you lose confidence and your approach will becom...
Read More
Here’s What To Look Out For On Dating Apps – ‘Sextortion’ Leads To Financial Losses And Psychological Trauma
No Comments
RELATIONSHIPS

Here’s What To Look Out For On Dating Apps – ‘Sextortion’ Leads To Financial Losses And Psychological Trauma

When malicious internet users gain people’s trust to obtain sexually explicit photos or videos, and then use these materials – specifically the threat of sharing them – to coerce them for sexual, personal or financial gain, this is called “sextortion”. Recent incidents of sextortion are not entirely surprising given the increase in social interactions online during lockdowns, particularly by way of online dating. But they are concerning. Being a victim of sextortion is associated with significant financial losses (sextortion cost Americans US$8 million over the first seven months of 2021, for example) as well as trauma. Perpetrators of sextortion could be strangers who want to exploit vulnerable young children or adolescents. They could be former romantic partners or members of organised...
Read More
Tactics Of Tinder Swindlers: First The ‘Love-Bomb’, Then The ‘Financial Emergency’
No Comments
RELATIONSHIPS

Tactics Of Tinder Swindlers: First The ‘Love-Bomb’, Then The ‘Financial Emergency’

In the chart-topping Netflix documentary The Tinder Swindler, three women describe how they were defrauded by convicted conman Simon Leviev (who was born Shimon Hayut) after meeting him on the dating app. The film gives a detailed and deeply personal account of how Leviev used Tinder to connect with his victims and ultimately swindle them out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. I have been researching romance fraud for more than a decade. I have heard the painful and traumatic stories of hundreds of victims. While each story is unique, there are common factors, and some wider lessons to learn. The Tinder Swindler is a powerful example of what can go wrong, but what does it teach us about romance fraud, and how can you avoid becoming the next victim? What is romance fraud? Romance fraud...
Read More
Places Single Emo Girls Can Go To Meet Single Emo Guys
No Comments
ATTRACTION

Places Single Emo Girls Can Go To Meet Single Emo Guys

Sometimes finding an emo soul mate is a real pain. Depending on the area that you live in, the emo population can be slim to none. So, where should single emo girls go to meet single emo guys? Well, here are a few ideas. #1.) School Whether it be high school or college, there are bound to be a few single emo guys roaming around the campus. And what better place to get a good feel for a guy than somewhere that you see him every day. #2.) The Mall By far the second largest, and sometimes even the largest, concentration of emo guys can be found at the mall. This is a single emo girls haven for, at the very least, some really nice eye candy. I have yet to go to the mall and not spot at least one hottie walking around with his besties. And if you're lucky, his besties will be hotties too. ...
Read More