Thursday, April 23

RELATIONSHIPS

How Serious Is Your Online Date? The Signs
DATING

How Serious Is Your Online Date? The Signs

The one challenge that comes with online dating is that it can be very hard to tell what the other person is feeling and whether they have the same expectations as you do. Face to face interactions are very helpful when it comes to evaluating a potential partner, but the fact that it might take time before you meet and spend time together makes online dating a little challenging especially for those looking for serious relationships. However, it is very possible to find a date looking for a serious and strong relationship. There are a few signs that you can watch out for to find out whether what you have has any seriousness or you are just having fun and wasting time with each other. If what you want is a serious relationship, then the signs are worth looking for just so you do not end up...
How To Know He’s The One
RELATIONSHIPS

How To Know He’s The One

In a world were there are a lot of pretense and impression management. How do you know his the one. Someone posted a picture on Facebook she said '' I must do a lot of stroking because the pretense is too much'' the picture shows a handsome guy with a perfect beard at the right but the left side of the face shows his beard was fixed not actually real. When a young man is ready for marriage except fear nothing else holds you can walk up and propose but when a young girl is ready she can't just propose all she does is to make known she's available. My mentor usually say '' love may bring people together but love does not keep people in marriage you need more than just love to stay in marriage ". Natural affection alone can not stand the stress of marriage. It is not enough to just look a...
Romance Is Not Necessarily Love
LOVE

Romance Is Not Necessarily Love

In romantic depictions of love, cute little images of cherubs and cupids abound. But Cupid, in his real incarnation, is not so sweet and cuddly. His arrows can create deep and lasting wounds, and can strike you blind and irrational in a heartbeat. A few disaster-filled run-ins with Cupid's dart and you can readily believe that love will never work for you. Even if you take responsibility for your own life in most ways and successfully handle most work and social situations, when it comes to intimate relationships you may feel helpless and out of control. You may find yourself inexplicably obsessing on someone who isn't available or interested, or even feeling so needy and helpless that you are unable to protect yourself when you are criticized, abused or degraded. It's a very painful expe...
Happy Habits For Relationships
RELATIONSHIPS

Happy Habits For Relationships

Romance is a way to express your love, the icing on the cake. But don't wait for special occasions to express your love. Make sure that you nurture your loving relationship by practicing these basic habits in your day-to-day life. These may seem very basic, but how many do you practice regularly? Don't despair... it's never too late to adopt good, loving habits. Most couples who come to my counseling practice because of problems report that their marriage lost its romance long ago. It's easy to feel romantic when you live separately and date each other, because every moment spent together is special. From the moment you begin to live together, such romantic moments are no longer automatic. Instead, much of your time together is spent on more mundane things: doing laundry, washing dishes, ...
The Story Of A Ghost (Fictional Short Story)
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The Story Of A Ghost (Fictional Short Story)

In the late evening hours, I was seated at the firm surface of my bed. I can't go back to sleep; in louver, I waited until the ultimate sunlit peeped through the slats. That moment I was in so much anguish that made me starry-eyed. In a flick, my thoughts desired to see the distance place where moments of loved ones dwell. Even if it was an intermission, I welcomed it all in alliance with my deep longing for the happy occurrence. My heart was in the clamor to see them all; my eyes sparkled with pleasures for all the fine senses of deep affection. While time held its breath, gave way to reunite me with the past. It flew me back to the time where I was seated with other small children maybe aged 6 or 7 and where a lady teacher believed she was holding a stone whisperer will always know of w...
Why You Shouldn’t Expect Fireworks When You Approach Women You Like
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Why You Shouldn’t Expect Fireworks When You Approach Women You Like

Never Get Emotionally Attached To Situations Of Uncertainty One of the biggest mistakes men make is thinking that a woman they just met, who they're talking to, is a sure thing. He doesn't know this woman's motives or if she's even worth his time. Men have put themselves into bad situations because they thought a woman was a sure thing, but she had ulterior motives. It may seem like things are going really well, but the woman could be just looking for attention. She may be flirting with you at the club, but she is just trying to get her boyfriend jealous who's a few yards away looking at the whole interaction take place. When she gets what she wants, she will leave you there looking confused when she doesn't go home with you. Being Stuck On One Woman (You're Not Even In A Relationship With...
Almost half of US teens who date experience stalking and harassment
DATING

Almost half of US teens who date experience stalking and harassment

Falling in love for the first time can be a thrill, and teen dating is important to adolescent development. But according to the results of a study that my research team recently conducted, these early forays into romance often veer into unhealthy territory. CC BY-ND As many as 48% of 12- to 18-year-olds who describe themselves as having had a dating partner in the past year have also experienced dating-related stalking and harassment. Not only can dating-related stalking and harassment cause anxiety and depression in teens, but it can also be a harbinger for more serious forms of abuse should the relationship continue. Our study collected self-reported survey data from 320 adolescents from across the U.S. through the Survey on Teen Relationships and Intimate Violence. Youths with datin...
I Met My Husband Online — Here’s What Everyone Gets Wrong About Online Dating
DATING

I Met My Husband Online — Here’s What Everyone Gets Wrong About Online Dating

  My husband and I met on the popular dating app. Many people have misconceptions about online dating, from it being only for the socially inept to there being an extreme stigma around it. Despite the challenges it can present, online dating can be a really rewarding experience that can end in long-term commitment.   Six months ago, I woke up hungover in a queen-sized room at the Kimpton Hotel Monaco in Salt Lake City. My eyes were swollen. My stomach felt sour. But, overall, I felt OK. I got more than eight hours of sleep, which isn't something most people can say the night before they get married. I sat on the bed watching "Keeping Up with the Kardashians" with an eye mask on, in hopes my dark circles would cease to exist. It was the Christmas card episode. Realizing...
Why people post ‘couple photos’ as their social media profile pictures
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Why people post ‘couple photos’ as their social media profile pictures

As you scroll through your Facebook news feed, you see it: Your friend has posted a new profile picture. But instead of a picture of just your friend, it’s a couple photo – a picture of your friend and their romantic partner. “Why would someone choose that as their profile picture?” you wonder. We are social psychology researchers interested in understanding people’s behavior in close relationships and on social media. Our research and that of other scholars provides insight into why people use these types of “I’m part of a couple!” displays on social media. Choosing profile photos that include their romantic partner, posting their relationship status and mentioning their partner in their updates can all be signs of how people feel in their relationship – and may send an important messag...
The Guide to Free Black Dating Sites
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The Guide to Free Black Dating Sites

Many people are considering exploring all of the free black dating sites that are out there. These sites can provide a potentially wonderful experience for you. However before you go exploring here are some general guidelines to look for at each site. Just by definition a free black dating site is really an affordable, fun way for black people to meet other black people or people in general for friendship, dating and romance. With people working more and more, sometimes 2 or 3 jobs to make ends meet, the online dating world is becoming a much more viable option. These sites are filled with people from all walks of life. However, all sites are not created equal and it is important that you do your homework before you decide to join any particular site. The first thing you want to do is id...