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Finding Love Even If You Are Already In Your Forties

15Aug

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Finding Love Even If You Are Already In Your Forties

Love is awesome and unnerving regardless of when you discover it. Be that as it may, searching for affection after 40 accompanies its very own one of a kind delights and challenges. By the time you arrive at your 40s, there are numerous potential ways your life may have taken to get you to where you are. Possibly you've had a considerable amount of dissatisfaction, dismissal, and anguish, however while you can't delete your past, you can absolutely gain from it. Truth be told, "when you're in our 40s, you can truly utilize those beneficial encounters. It's not simply that you know yourself and what works and doesn't work seeing someone, it's that when you arrive at your 40s, you've presumably felt the enchantment of affection. When you're single in your 40s, a few people respond to you ...

Philosophy Can Help Us Become Better Friends

13Dec

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Philosophy Can Help Us Become Better Friends

Friday essay: how philosophy can help us become better friends. Friends, family, lovers – these are three mainstays in our intimate lives. We typically expect familial relationships to be solid, essentially for life. In our romantic lives, we search for the “one” to be with for life. Friendships seem less important, at least in comparison. It is easy to think about friends as people who come and go with the seasons of life. This could be a massive miscalculation. There is a case to be made that friendship is not the third wheel to these other, more significant relationships. Losing friends can be extremely painful. I was working as an ordained minister in the Anglican Church when I gave up my faith and ran off with a fellow church worker (who is still the love of my life). This had profoun...

13Dec

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An Ode To Friendship!

What is friendship? Well, friendship is too vast a concept or a relationship for a clear-cut definition. In fact, it always remains better-off undefined, and even unfathomable. For practical purposes though, friendships are based on mutual likes, mutual respect, mutual love and a whole limitless world of mutuality. Some friends are made instantly, on the first exchange of mutual likes or in line with that saying 'love at first sight' being replaced with 'friendship at first sight', while some others take time to bloom into a perfect relationship. It is not necessary to have everything in common to be friends: friends can have diametrically opposite interests or even ideologies or passions or professions and yet be the best of friends. Mind you, like marriages friends are not made in heaven...

What To Know About These Ethical Non-Monogamy Often Misunderstood Relationships

13May

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What To Know About These Ethical Non-Monogamy Often Misunderstood Relationships

Ethical non-monogamy: what to know about these often misunderstood relationships. Imagine Sarah and John have been in a monogamous relationship for five years. Although they love each other, Sarah, who is bisexual, has recently started feeling an attraction to her coworker, Andrea. This has led to several sexual encounters, leaving Sarah feeling guilty. However, she has not talked to John about her feelings or experiences with Andrea. No matter how much you love your partner, it’s common to feel attracted to someone outside of a relationship. Some couples may even want sexual encounters with other people. It can be difficult to navigate these feelings, especially when they conflict with the commitment and promises made in the relationship. While the sex between Sarah and Andrea was cons...

29Mar

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A Rose By Any Other Color

Giving a rose to someone you love can be very special, however if you happen to choose the wrong color of rose, the message you send can turn disastrous. With so many different rose colors, all meaning different things, it can be hard to know what to give to a friend, relative or spouse without sending a mixed message. If you only want to go by the old standby of a red rose, then there is little else to think about. However, if you are adventurous, you can give rose of a different color. Here is what each of the main rose colors mean. We all know that a red rose signifies love. Any husband who has had to stop at a flower shop on his way home to say sorry for a real, or imaginary, transgression towards his spouse, knows that when all else fails, it is the best way to go. Red roses are the...

14Dec

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Star Sign Compatibility

The Secrets of Star Sign Compatibility. For a long time I had on my website detailed descriptions of the compatibilities between the twelve star signs. I even gave them star ratings. The relationship between Aquarius and Cancer got one star, between Aries and Capricorn three stars and between Virgo and Capricorn five. Looking at the traffic to my website, it was clear that most of my visitors wanted to know about their love life, and in particular their compatibility with their real or hoped-for partners. While I was grateful for this traffic, it seemed out of balance and didn't reflect what I wanted to concentrate on. I therefore changed the website, and took down all the pages about star signs and compatibility. That doesn't mean to say that I am not interested in star signs and ro...

How To Get Invited To The Most Exclusive Swingers Parties Ever

30Dec

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How To Get Invited To The Most Exclusive Swingers Parties Ever

It is really easy and really hard at the same time to get your first invite to a Swinger's House Party. I know that sounds confusing, but read this to the end to find out what I mean. The easy part is that all you have to do is find and meet someone who is having a house part (or going to one) and then get them to invite you. Okay so that is not as easy to do as it was to write. See what I mean that it can sound a little confusing. Let's start with meeting someone first. It tends to be outgoing couples that get invited the most, as everyone likes someone who is outgoing rather than a wall flower. So when you are at a swing club, make sure you don't just sit in the corner as no one will see you. Instead why not go sit at the bar? It is so much easier to meet people when you are at the ...

Sex And The Workplace? Five Dangers Of Hooking Up At Work And How To Handle Collegial Booty Calls

14Nov

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Sex And The Workplace? Five Dangers Of Hooking Up At Work And How To Handle Collegial Booty Calls

Have you ever felt undeniably attracted to a coworker? Have you wondered if it is OK to have sex or hook up with a coworker? Have you ever had one too many at an office party and gone home with a client or coworker? Do you know someone else who did? Then this article may be for you! Most companies have strict policies about work relationships, and support employees maintaining professional relationships that do not include sexual relationships because of legal issues and because of potential loss of productivity or employees because of rumors and drama! Although it may be very tempting to act on your desire or impulse, here are some tips to keep in mind if you want to enjoy your work relationships and stay out of trouble at work. Here are some dangers of sex in the workplace. Danger #1...

My Ex Boyfriend’s Friend Contacted Me! What This Really Means

10Nov

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My Ex Boyfriend’s Friend Contacted Me! What This Really Means

Since the break up you've been wishing and hoping that you'd get a sign from the universe suggesting that your ex boyfriend wants you back, right? It's understandable. You still love him and you feel that the break up was a mistake. Unfortunately, your ex seems to have moved on without much thought about what you'd like. But now you've heard from his friend. It can't just be an innocent gesture, could it? The friend must have been sent to check on you by your ex. At least that's what your broken heart is trying to tell you. Sadly, I'm here to tell you something very different. The fact that a friend of your ex has made contact means very little in the big picture. In fact, don't be surprised to learn that your ex had absolutely nothing to do with it. When a break up occurs it affects ev...

14Dec

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Vanilla Or Chocolate

When in the Lady bars (really it should be just bar... but I am trying to remain hopefully), shopping in grocery stores, drinking coffee downtown and looking at the gorgeous women one thing comes to mind "Is she Vanilla or Chocolate?" We all have are own individual sexual style and being with a woman is so wonderful in itself it is hard to describe or put into words the magic of lesbian love-making. There are an infinite amount of ways lesbians can have sex, and we have a variety of women to experience sex with, bisexual, woman who enjoy sex with other women (no label necessary), queer women, and lesbian transgender. Here are some reasons why lady loving is so fantastic: The roles can be switched up, back and forth. We can be dominant and in control (ripping her clothes off against a wal...