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26Oct

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Your Real Friends, Who Are They?

Who do you refer to as your friends? Is it the person who spends the most time with you? Or the person who is always there in times of trouble? Is this a real good definition of a friend or only a construed meaning of what a real friend should be? We could look up the meaning in a dictionary, but anyone could do that. And that won't change the answer you have inside your own thoughts. What do you truly feel a real friend is, what do you believe yourself a true friend to be. Reason why I bring this up because, someone I once believed to be a good friend of mine, when I really paid close attention too, was not a very good friend to me. My definition of a friend is someone who has similar views and beliefs close to your own. Someone you can relate to and who you believe understands how you fe...

Starting Again, But Where Are My Friends?

2Oct

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Starting Again, But Where Are My Friends?

Have you ever changed school, moved home, left one job for another and realized that by doing so you're starting again and leaving all your friends behind? Going away to university, getting divorced, moving on are often exciting times but can be full of trepidation nonetheless. Whilst we may have considered many factors the impact on our friendship groups may be something we didn't fully appreciate until much later down the line. Starting again can be an apprehensive time anyway; having to learn where everything is, where we're supposed to be, what we should be doing. There can be a lot to remember and doing these things alone can make everything so much harder. Missing out on having a friendly, familiar face to share a coffee and a chat with can make the first few self-conscious months qu...

A Woman’s Guide To Become A Goddess That Men Worship

13Dec

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A Woman’s Guide To Become A Goddess That Men Worship

Behind every great man is a great woman. This phrase is really not an exaggeration. "The King's Speech" -which I believe will be the best movie this year- puts a spotlight on a piece of history involving the British royal family. What's very penetrating to me is how this one family brings to mind a very important aspect of men-women relations which I call feminine magnetism and what it does to a man. First, the Queen's mother is the embodiment of the very thing I'm talking about. She was such a powerful woman, such a rock to her husband...and to the nation during the war crisis. Second, Wallis Simpson -the woman the Queen's Mum incidentally (or not) loathed- is but another example of how powerful a woman can be. She was the reason Edward VIII abdicated his throne. What more poignant exampl...

10Sep

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I Think Of You In The Shower Every Day

Imagine that blonde bombshell you've had your eye on for a while... or that busty brunette, if you're more into brunettes... telling you these exact words! How awesome would that be? Pretty awesome, right? Here's how to do it! True story, btw. Once upon a time, I met this hot blonde. We were just chatting and having fun when for god knows what reason, the subject of showers came up. So, I jokingly told her... "You'll see... the next time you take a shower... and you hold the showerhead in your hand... I'll pop into your mind... and the more you try to resist it... the more you'll think of me!" Unknowingly, I did something called a hypnotic suggestion! But since I did it in a joking and teasing way, I got away with it without looking like a weirdo! Btw, I honestly had no idea what I was ...

13Dec

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Do Fairy Tales Exists?

Love at first sight. They see each other from across the room. Their eyes lock. Every other person fades out. The music starts. He walks over to her and it's just as if they've know each other their entire lives. They kiss. They marry. And 2.5 kids later and a black lab, they live happily ever after. After all. It is a fairy tale. I do a fair amount of relationship work with my clients. And it is no surprise that I hear the same complaints over and over again from both men and women. It is almost like both have forgotten that relationships take work. I had one women with whom I have worked with over the course of the years tell me that monogamy is a thing of the past. For some yes. For many, no. When we reviewed her dating history, all of her relationships ended in infidelity, or simply sh...

The Story Of A Ghost (Fictional Short Story)

13Dec

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The Story Of A Ghost (Fictional Short Story)

In the late evening hours, I was seated at the firm surface of my bed. I can't go back to sleep; in louver, I waited until the ultimate sunlit peeped through the slats. That moment I was in so much anguish that made me starry-eyed. In a flick, my thoughts desired to see the distance place where moments of loved ones dwell. Even if it was an intermission, I welcomed it all in alliance with my deep longing for the happy occurrence. My heart was in the clamor to see them all; my eyes sparkled with pleasures for all the fine senses of deep affection. While time held its breath, gave way to reunite me with the past. It flew me back to the time where I was seated with other small children maybe aged 6 or 7 and where a lady teacher believed she was holding a stone whisperer will always know of w...

Why You Shouldn’t Expect Fireworks When You Approach Women You Like

13Dec

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Why You Shouldn’t Expect Fireworks When You Approach Women You Like

Never Get Emotionally Attached To Situations Of Uncertainty One of the biggest mistakes men make is thinking that a woman they just met, who they're talking to, is a sure thing. He doesn't know this woman's motives or if she's even worth his time. Men have put themselves into bad situations because they thought a woman was a sure thing, but she had ulterior motives. It may seem like things are going really well, but the woman could be just looking for attention. She may be flirting with you at the club, but she is just trying to get her boyfriend jealous who's a few yards away looking at the whole interaction take place. When she gets what she wants, she will leave you there looking confused when she doesn't go home with you. Being Stuck On One Woman (You're Not Even In A Relationship With...