Anorgasmia, Preorgasmia and Vaginismus
Women who masturbate to orgasm are called pre-orgasmic. Rather than celebrate the fact that they experience orgasm, the implication is that they are inadequate because they should be able to orgasm through intercourse. Men's sex drive makes intercourse an obligatory activity for heterosexuals. In men's eyes, a woman's sexual role is to provide intercourse for a man.
If a woman cannot or will not offer intercourse, men assume that there is self-evidently something wrong with her or she is a lesbian. Female sexual dysfunction is defined according to this male point of view. Although most people assume most women masturbate or use sex toys to stimulate themselves, there is little interest in female masturbation. A woman is not considered to be dysfunctional if she doesn't masturbate. Masturb...