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Top Gun: Maverick’s Age Shouldn’t Stop Him As A Test And Fighter Pilot, But His Lifestyle Might
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Top Gun: Maverick’s Age Shouldn’t Stop Him As A Test And Fighter Pilot, But His Lifestyle Might

When Rolls Royce Test Pilot Phil O’Dell (POD to his friends and colleagues) broke the world electric flight airspeed record last year, nobody remarked upon his being in his late 50s. At 51, no one challenged me about my age when I recently made the first flight of the British all-electric Sherwood eKub prototype as a test pilot. And yet, in the new Top Gun film (Top Gun: Maverick), “Maverick” Pete Mitchell’s age is a key plot point. He’s one of the best pilots the US has ever seen, but he’s 57 years old. His colleagues question whether he is too old to be a test and fighter pilot. The answer is an emphatic no – 57 is not too old. I’ve met many test pilots in their 60s, and fighter pilots in their 50s. Has Maverick Got What It Takes? It typically costs $5-$10 million (£4-£8 millio...
Is Sexting A Sign Of A Committed Relationship? – It Might Actually Be
RELATIONSHIPS

Is Sexting A Sign Of A Committed Relationship? – It Might Actually Be

Why do people sext? Why do they send racy or naked photos or videos and sexually loaded texts? For a short-term hookup, sexting might seem like a direct way to get what you want – or at least try to. But according to my research, sexting is actually most likely to occur within a committed relationship. Some research suggests that people often engage in sexting after being coerced by romantic partners or to avoid an argument with their romantic partner. So perhaps anxiety and concern about what your romantic partner thinks about you promote behaviors like sexting. As a human development researcher who studies how technology influences relationships, I wanted to understand if people who are anxious about dating or about what their partner thinks of them are more likely to sext. So where d...
It’s Not Exactly Science But ‘Love Languages’ Might Help You Understand Your Partner
RELATIONSHIPS

It’s Not Exactly Science But ‘Love Languages’ Might Help You Understand Your Partner

‘Love languages’ might help you understand your partner – but it’s not exactly science. If you’ve ever flipped through the pages of a women’s lifestyle magazine, there’s a good chance you’ve stumbled onto a quiz promising to answer the question “what is your love language?”. Or if social media is more your speed, there’s no shortage of tweets, memes, GIFs and TikToks bringing the concept of “love languages” into the mainstream. This theory originated from a book published in 1992, The Five Love Languages, written by American author and pastor Gary Chapman. Chapman began to notice trends in couples he was counseling, perceiving they were misunderstanding each other’s needs. The five love languages he subsequently proposed are words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of servi...
Red Flags That You Might Be Dating A ‘Vulnerable Narcissist’
DATING

Red Flags That You Might Be Dating A ‘Vulnerable Narcissist’

Think you might be dating a ‘vulnerable narcissist’? Look out for these red flags. Single people are increasingly turning online to find love, with more than 300 million people around the world trying their luck on dating apps. Some find their fairy tale. But for others, stories of online dating have very different endings. You may be ghosted after a seemingly blissful start, or strung along with just crumbs of attention. Perhaps you suddenly learn the person you’re dating isn’t who you thought they were. If these scenarios sound familiar, you may have dated a “vulnerable narcissist”. The dark side of online dating These days, about 30% of new relationships form online, and experts say this will only become more common in the future. But online dating isn’t without risk. Antisocial datin...
After A Breakup Who Keeps The Engagement Ring? Why You Might Want A Prenup For Your Diamond
BREAK UP

After A Breakup Who Keeps The Engagement Ring? Why You Might Want A Prenup For Your Diamond

Who keeps the engagement ring after a breakup? 2 law professors explain why you might want a prenup for your diamond. When Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck got engaged the first time, in 2002, he gave her a very pricey ring. That engagement ring was reportedly worth as much as $2.5 million, made by luxury jeweler Harry Winston and adorned with a 6.1-carat pink diamond. After the movie stars broke up in 2004 without getting married, J. Lo said she intended to return the ring “quietly” to Affleck. Whether or she ever did that or not, was Lopez entitled to keep the that rock or any of the others she got from her numerous ex-husbands and former fiancés? The answer can matter to anyone who is engaged, married – or even thinking about tying the knot. No one knows for sure how many engagements end ...