affair

13Dec

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Is Indifference An Effective Way To Get Revenge For An Affair?

I sometimes hear from people who want their cheating spouse to feel some consequences for their actions. They want their spouse to feel guilt, shame, remorse, and sorrow. But, for whatever reason, they have been unable to elicit these responses. Their spouse continues to act defensive or indignant or attempts to shift the blame. As a result, they look for ways to entice their spouse to feel the emotions of guilt that they should just naturally feel. Someone might say, "honestly, my husband says that he is sorry for the affair, but his actions and behavior just don't show this. Sometimes, when we are discussing how the affair has affected our family, I will start to cry because I am so upset at what he has done. When I cry, he doesn't attempt to comfort me. He just gets really uncomfortabl...

Signs He Is Ending The Affair

When an affair is ending it will normally end from one person who wants out... and then the other realizes (or is told) that it's over. Do you get the feeling that he wants out of the affair? What are the signs that he is ending the affair? i. His emotional interest in you has waned completely. A man who is ending an affair is no longer emotionally vested in you... at least not as fully as he once was. It's not the naturally waning of emotions but a totally lack of interest in you. No spontaneous touching, hugging, cuddling, kissing or other touchy things. He simply has no need or desire to touch you! ii. He has no time for you and the things that you care about. A man who is ending the affair will no longer want to be with you or to do those things that would make you happy. He will spe...

Why Would A Man Flaunt His Affair?

There is often a perception that a man who is having an affair will do everything in his power to keep his wife from finding out. People assume that he will cover his tracks, delete his texts, and perhaps even have a separate phone for his wife and for the other woman. Some men are exactly this sneaky. But not all men. There are a small subset of men who seem to not care if their wife finds out about the affair. In fact, some of them almost leave clues for her to follow. And some wives will tell you that not only did he not hide the affair, he actually flaunted it. Someone might say: "my husband never really tried to camouflage his affair. He kept his phone right on the counter when she would text him. He wouldn't announce that he was seeing someone else when he would go out, but he wouldn...