SEX-CAPADES – Page 5

13Dec

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Anorgasmia, Preorgasmia and Vaginismus

Women who masturbate to orgasm are called pre-orgasmic. Rather than celebrate the fact that they experience orgasm, the implication is that they are inadequate because they should be able to orgasm through intercourse. Men's sex drive makes intercourse an obligatory activity for heterosexuals. In men's eyes, a woman's sexual role is to provide intercourse for a man. If a woman cannot or will not offer intercourse, men assume that there is self-evidently something wrong with her or she is a lesbian. Female sexual dysfunction is defined according to this male point of view. Although most people assume most women masturbate or use sex toys to stimulate themselves, there is little interest in female masturbation. A woman is not considered to be dysfunctional if she doesn't masturbate. Masturb...

How To Make The Most Of Sexual Pleasuring

13Dec

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How To Make The Most Of Sexual Pleasuring

Sexuality is about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover. We experience sensual, emotional and erotic pleasure. People of both sexes regardless of orientation have different sexual appetites. Ideally there's a match of intellect, curiosity, imagination, sense of humor and concern for hygiene. There are three main categories of anatomy. The sex organ is involved in orgasm and the internal genital organs in reproduction. The erogenous zones relate to sensual pleasuring and may include any part of the body. Male and female erogenous zones are similar in anatomical terms. They include the labia or the length of the penis, either side of the labia or the testicles, the entrance to the vagina or the base of the penis, the perineum and the anus. For a man there is also the prostate gland beside t...

13Dec

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How Couples Can Communicate Over Sex

Images and stories of women apparently enjoying sex abound in fictional media. Even a responsive woman, who has the experience of orgasm through masturbation doubts the inevitable conclusion from her own experience. But it is much more difficult for women who never experience orgasm. They have nothing to replace the fiction with. Most women conclude that these fictional experiences must be true for some undefined other women. At the same time, all the ego and bravado causes others to conclude that it is all a hoax. But this private conclusion is never promoted. There is no reliable source of sex information. So women never know what they can realistically expect from their sexual experiences. Women themselves rarely compare notes over sex honestly. Most women are too embarrassed to discuss...

Inside The Messy Psychology Of Sexual Double Standards – Cheating’s OK For Me, But Not For Thee

12Dec

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Inside The Messy Psychology Of Sexual Double Standards – Cheating’s OK For Me, But Not For Thee

David M. Buss, The University of Texas at Austin College of Liberal Arts Sexual double standards – in which women and men are judged differently for the same sexual behavior – will probably sound familiar to most people. The classic one centers on multiple sexual partners: Men who are promiscuous are lauded as “studs,” “lotharios” or “ladies’ men,” while women who have a lot of sex get called “sluts” or “whores.” Men who cheat on their wives aren’t exactly praised, but they’ll often get a pass. Women who do the same, on the other hand, risk sullying their social reputations. There’s a different sexual double standard, however, and it’s one that exists between two partners. In my new book, “When Men Behave Badly: The Hidden Roots of Sexual Deception, Harassment, and Assault,” I spend so...

The Misconceptions That Arise From Pornography

12Dec

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The Misconceptions That Arise From Pornography

Women can engage in sexual activity indefinitely because they are unresponsive with a lover. In porn, so-called multiple orgasms offer a way of explaining how women could apparently be re-aroused indefinitely. Porn actresses moan intermittently throughout the male performance. They build in some smaller climaxes along the way to bring the man on. It's as if women are aroused and re-aroused on a never-ending basis until the man has had his orgasm. Finally when the man is about to ejaculate, the woman is miraculously also simultaneously satisfied. Ideally she brings her vocal accompaniment to a final crescendo coincident with the man's orgasm. Porno actresses provide vocal accompaniment as a male turn-on. Men don't have to make all that noise to convince a lover that they have had an orgasm...

Sex As A Bargaining Chip In Loving Relationships

13Dec

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Sex As A Bargaining Chip In Loving Relationships

Relationships of any kind are an inevitable compromise. No two individuals, even of the same sex, have exactly the same priorities at exactly the same time. When we are single, we can focus on our own selfish needs. But when we have a relationship with another person, we need to consider their needs as well as our own. Sometimes these two demands conflict. A key principle of heterosexuality is that a woman offers intercourse on her terms. Intercourse is a privilege that a woman confers on a man as a sign of her approval. Naturally this causes men to feel controlled by women. A woman wants a man to be affectionate, interested in her concerns and willing to respect her wishes (requests she makes about issues that she cares about). Many men reject these requests as unimportant because they se...

How A Woman Can Interest A Man In Having Sex

13Dec

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How A Woman Can Interest A Man In Having Sex

In the early days of a relationship, a couple may explore different approaches to pleasuring. Given women's sexual passivity, it is typically the man who takes the sexual initiative. A man has the motivation to explore a lover's body because he is aroused by doing so. A woman is not. Typically men try different approaches to sexual pleasuring with the boundaries set by a woman's objections. Over time instead of this random and silent approach, a couple may want to invest in more open communication about their sex life. A woman could suggest, outside the bedroom, the activities she would like to try or how she would like a lover to stimulate her. Women should be more proactive with a lover. If a woman has read erotic literature or watched porn movies, she may identify with the role of givin...

Sex On Board US Warship: Act Of Indiscipline

14Dec

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Sex On Board US Warship: Act Of Indiscipline

Sex and Adultery on board US Warship invited Action News has come that a sexual adventure on a US warship has had to be punished. The warship a guided missile cruiser had seen action in the Mediterranean sea and also operated against the ISIS in the Middle East. An anonymous complaint was received by the Captain of the ship; that 2 Chief Petty Officers were indulging in an adulterous sexual relationship with a junior petty officer. It was also alleged that 4 other chief petty officer's were in the know of things. An investigation was ordered and the facts came to light. The investigation revealed that 2 chief petty officers were having a sexual relationship with a young girl, who was on board ship. She was a junior petty officer. The investigation also pointed out that 4 senior NCO's wer...

How A Heterosexual Man Can Have Sex More Often

13Dec

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How A Heterosexual Man Can Have Sex More Often

When talking about sex, adults often fail to take into account the very different experiences we have. We may also have very different responses to the same experience because of our different personalities. Nor it is acknowledged that the frequencies with which a woman is expected to be amenable to intercourse are related to her partner's sex drive not her own. Some men like to engage in foreplay. This male behavior focuses on prolonging male arousal. Educated men look for a deeper emotional connection with a lover in their sex lives. A man who wants an engaged partner, puts more pressure on a woman because he expects a response of some kind or a performance. This make sex more onerous for a woman so she becomes less willing to invest the extended time in having sex. One of the main justi...

Numerology, Sex, And Love-Root Numbers 1-9 Part II

12Dec

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Numerology, Sex, And Love-Root Numbers 1-9 Part II

Pythagoras, known as the Father of Number, believed number mysticism is one of the keys of the meaning of life. "Number rules the universe." Pythagoras Everyone has been exposed to basic numerology, and we don't blame you if you're skeptical. Instead of relying entirely upon single factors like the day of birth, we've found pattern recognition using multiple indicators is the most dependable way to delineate personality and fate. Feel free to use single factors like the day of birth or sum total of the month, day, and year as a point of reference if you are exceedingly clairvoyant. However, few individuals are so consistently intuitive that they don't need a comprehensive approach using pattern recognition to get reliable results time after time. Imagine standing before the largest bui...