SEX-CAPADES

From Her Perspective: As the twilight deepened into night, I felt a welcoming warmth enveloping me as I slipped under the soft silk sheets of my bed. Tonight was special; it was a night reserved for vulnerability and unguarded revelry. The act of sleeping naked was not merely about shedding the burdens of the day; it was an invitation—an embrace of authenticity, both for myself and for the man who would share this sacred space. The freedom felt exhilarating, as if the very fabric of my insecurities fell away, leaving only the essence of who I truly am. I could hardly wait for him to arrive, to feel the touch of his warm skin against mine, to blend our worlds together in this intimate sanctuary. From His Perspective: As I lingered in the steamy glow of the evening, a sense of anticipat...

Do feminists have better sex? Yes, they do. You might’ve heard the stereotype that feminists are just angry women who need to find a man who can satisfy them sexually. It is an old trope that has been with us since at least the 1970s. Unfortunately, just when we think we may have moved on from toxic myths like these, rhetoric reminds us they are still very much around. United States Sen. Ted Cruz tried to revive this cliché in recent comments at a conservative conference. He suggested that liberal women are sexually unsatisfied because liberal men are too wimpy: “If you were a liberal woman, and you had to sleep with those weenies, you’d be pissed too.” He implied that they will only achieve sexual satisfaction by submitting to domineering men. I have conducted research on the topic of fem...

Friends with benefits – what a sex and relationship therapist wants you to know. There are many kinds of sexual situations people can get into – everything from committed monogamous relationships to a one-night stand. But friends with benefits (FWB) situations are often still seen as controversial, perhaps because of the potential for heartbreak. Typically, FWB arrangements involve two people engaging in casual sexual activities without the expectations and constraints often associated with romantic partnerships. Unlike a fling or a hook up there is often an understanding that the situation is indefinite and that the friendship may resume or continue even if the physical relationship ends. Different types of relationships can serve different purposes. Psychological research into FWB arrang...

Did the Romans and Greeks really enjoy orgies? Orgies conjure in our imagination the world of Greek and Roman Antiquity, thanks to more or less titillating films portraying debauched emperors, or maybe specifically Fellini’s Satyricon. The term is also used today to signify all sorts of excess. For us, the orgy stands for the ultimate celebration of the pleasures of the flesh, in an ancient world free from moral constraint. But what were they like in reality? From orgia to orgies The word comes to us from the Greek orgia. This denotes rites practised in honour of gods such as Dionysus, whose cult celebrates the regeneration of nature. It concerns so-called mystery cults – that’s to say, those limited to initiates, men and women, previously sworn to not divulge their secrets. The term or...