Wednesday, January 14

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Baby Talk – Why Do Couples Use It With One Another?
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Baby Talk – Why Do Couples Use It With One Another?

Imagine you’re strolling through a park and you overhear a middle-aged couple cooing over each other, doting over their “wittle sugar pwum” and “baby doll.” “Ewwww,” you might reflexively think. Baby talk is cute when grown-ups dote on babies. But when adults converse with each other? Not so much. Yet in my work as a communication sciences and disorders researcher, I’ve come across studies showing that as many as two-thirds of couples use romantic baby talk. It may sound strange and elicit cringes, but it’s no disorder. So why do couples do it? First, it’s important to understand what, exactly, I mean by “baby talk.” It’s not how babies talk to one another. It’s the exaggerated pitch, tempo and intonation that parents use when talking to their little ones – what linguists call “motherese” ...
My Life Story And The Endless Question
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My Life Story And The Endless Question

What a journey! And I don't mean the one Ben and I are in right now! No. I mean something larger. As in a life history line. I would never have thought that the personal achievements and goals which to me were once unachievable, far fetched and non realistic then, would I be living right now. Nor would I even have imagined the term sugar baby associated with my life. We both decided to take a break from our comfort zone of skyscraper restaurants, West End evenings and Sketch London nights and gave way to the surrounding fairy tale like landscape with its frozen scenery we are cutting right through in bullet speed now. I have no idea why I now, all of a sudden started scribbling this thoughts down but I suppose as we have a few hours till we get to Geneva and Ben completely dozed off next t...
How To Seduce Your Dream Girl And Make Her Fall For You
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How To Seduce Your Dream Girl And Make Her Fall For You

If you are serious about learning how to seduce your dream girl, then the tips in this article are sure to be extremely beneficial for you. Read on. 1. Lay down the foundation. Without a doubt, taking that first step will be the hardest thing that you will have to do in the dating department. If you have already met the girl of your dreams and want to start acting right away, then you will have to breathe first and think about how you would like the girl to see you first and foremost. 2. Showcase positive attributes. Obviously, if you want to learn how to seduce your dream girl, you will have to showcase positive attributes that will make you look more attractive in her eyes. For starters, you can show her that you are ambitious. See, girls love guys who aim for the stars. Even if you are ...
What Are The Pros Cons And The Definition Of Open Relationship Lifestyle
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What Are The Pros Cons And The Definition Of Open Relationship Lifestyle

What is the definition of open relationship? Do you think it is possible to love one person and be sexually active with others? Are open relationships helpful or harmful to couples? The dictionary definition of open relationship is this: An open relationship is a relationship in which the participants are free to have emotional and / or physical relationships with other partners, often within mutually agreed limits. If a couple in a relationship like this is married, it can be called an open marriage. Different Types of Relationships The definition of open relationship leaves plenty of room for interpretation, and people who wonder whether such a relationship would work for them can struggle to come to an agreement. No matter what definition of open relationship you may be considering, be...
Is He The Right Man For You? 5 Signs That Says He Is
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Is He The Right Man For You? 5 Signs That Says He Is

She often goes to sci-fi conventions, regularly holds video game marathons at her place and meets a lot of people who share the same interests - including guys. As it was, Tessa had been single for some time and was hoping to find a partner who could complement her personality. And even though she had a lot in common with the guys in her social circles, she couldn't quite hit it off romantically with any of them. So it was a complete surprise when Ben came along and swept Tessa off her feet. "He's super active in the local sports scene and is very athletic, so he wasn't my type at all... or so I thought," Tessa shared with a girlish smile. They met by chance at a charity auction set up by mutual friends, and they clicked the moment they met. "I couldn't put my finger on it at first, b...
Your Real Friends, Who Are They?
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Your Real Friends, Who Are They?

Who do you refer to as your friends? Is it the person who spends the most time with you? Or the person who is always there in times of trouble? Is this a real good definition of a friend or only a construed meaning of what a real friend should be? We could look up the meaning in a dictionary, but anyone could do that. And that won't change the answer you have inside your own thoughts. What do you truly feel a real friend is, what do you believe yourself a true friend to be. Reason why I bring this up because, someone I once believed to be a good friend of mine, when I really paid close attention too, was not a very good friend to me. My definition of a friend is someone who has similar views and beliefs close to your own. Someone you can relate to and who you believe understands how you fe...
Creative Ways To Ask A Girl Out
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Creative Ways To Ask A Girl Out

Ok, look. You've been eying on this drop-dead gorgeous girl since last summer. But, you simply don't have the guts to say hi to her. What should you do? How about this: Try to find creative ways to ask a girl out! Yes. Most of the time, memorizing pick lines don't work. So why even bother trying? The real way to score with that chick is to find creative ways to ask a girl out. Don't swallow the entire book of "Fantastic Pick Up Lines". It'll reap you nada results. Try now to be more natural and as creative as possible. Boy, if you are successful, she would probably feel that you have swept her off her feet (like totally!). In first place, why must you go on the hassle to find creative ways to ask a girl out? The reason is simply because, girls (particularly teenage girls) love special atte...
What Is ‘The Ick’? Another TikTok Trend
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What Is ‘The Ick’? Another TikTok Trend

Raquel Peel, University of Southern Queensland “The ick”, much discussed on TikTok and Instagram lately, is where attraction to a current or potential partner is suddenly flipped to a feeling of disgust. It’s often triggered in an instant, social media users say, by witnessing some kind of turn-off – a bad dance move, a grating laugh, or an off-putting eating style. So what might be behind “the ick”? Are you letting ‘the ick’ undermine your chances in love? One possibility is this is a self-defensive mechanism or strategy to protect against relationship failure, fear of commitment, fear of intimacy, or rejection sensitivity. Models of relationship counselling practice explain attraction is a “flip flop” phenomenon, where the thing that attracts you to someone today can be the same th...
Should Someone Take It Personally If Another Person Goes Silent On Them?
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Should Someone Take It Personally If Another Person Goes Silent On Them?

If one was in a position where they wanted to start a new relationship, they might decide to join an online dating side. This could be seen as the best way for them to find someone to be with. No Shame In the past, online dating was frowned upon, and this was partly because it was radically different to meeting someone in the real world. Along with this, it was seen as something that someone would use if they were a bit awkward. Nowadays, it is seen as a normal way to meet someone; in fact, meeting someone in the real world is often seen as something that is a bit strange. This shows how much the world has changed. Part of Life However, if one wasn't around when online dating wasn't available, this is going to be something they have grown up with. This is then going to be no different to g...
Dear Ms Nel: When Is Love Real?
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Dear Ms Nel: When Is Love Real?

Have you ever been in a relationship that has been a constant battle for the other person's time, attention and affection? You live on tender-hooks. Will they respond? Will they turn up? Or will they let you down? The feeling of being on an emotional roller-coaster controlled by someone else who cares less than you do will leave you feeling small, alone, anxious and sad. Your world will slowly contract until you are drowning. Most of us have experienced this kind of connection at least once in our lives. The truth is that equal and reciprocal love is not like this. It is joyous, calm and full of safety and comfort. You'll feel able to be your true and imperfect 'self'. You can be silly or angry, sad and tearful or, ambitious strong and successful... always knowing that your faults and your...