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Self-Help For A Broken Heart Those First Few Weeks

20Jul

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Self-Help For A Broken Heart Those First Few Weeks

The person you hoped to spend your life with has left you, for whatever reason, and your heart is broken. Initially, that pain and heart-ache is unbearable and you don't know how you're going to get through the next minute, let alone the next day. Obviously, you need to go through a grieving process for the lost relationship, and that will take time. However, you can help yourself through the first acute stages of pain and distress with these simple, natural remedies and healing exercises. Crystal Healing Take a piece of Rose Quartz or Rhodochrosite crystal. Cleanse it in running water, and then keep the crystal with you at all times. You can also hold the crystal and focus on its energy while breathing slowly for a few minutes. Mentally make a connection with the crystal, and ask its ene...

As Common As Sharing Your Experiences In A conversation Sometimes It’s Best To Just Listen

13Dec

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As Common As Sharing Your Experiences In A conversation Sometimes It’s Best To Just Listen

‘Oh that happened to me, too!’ Sharing your experiences in conversation is common but sometimes it’s best to just listen. Do you have a friend who responds to almost every anecdote you tell with “Oh my gosh, me too! This reminds me of when that happened to me.” Or perhaps you are that friend. Maybe you instinctively aim to bond with others by talking about experiences you’ve had that feel similar to what your friend has just shared. Pexels/Alex Green, CC BY Do you have a friend who responds to almost every anecdote you tell with “Oh my gosh, me too! This reminds me of when that happened to me.” Or perhaps you are that friend. Maybe you instinctively aim to bond with others by talking about experiences you’ve had that feel similar to what your friend has just shared. In psychology, this...

Without Making Things Worse — Here Are Four Ways To Have Hard Conversations With Your Friends

13Dec

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Without Making Things Worse — Here Are Four Ways To Have Hard Conversations With Your Friends

Four ways to have hard conversations with your friends – without making things worse. It’s painful to watch someone you care about make what you perceive as bad life choices – we all want what’s best for our loved ones. This can be particularly hard when they are dating someone you don’t think is good, or right for them. Swifties (fans of Taylor Swift) have experienced this recently when Taylor Swift was reported to be dating famed bad boy and “problematic” favourite Matt Healy from the band The 1975. Some fans form parasocial relationships with famous figures like Swift – this is where they feel like they have a close personal relationship with a celebrity and feel invested in them, while the celebrity has no idea who they are. Taylor Swift’s actions are visible for public dissection and ...

Here’s A Legally Safer Way To Protect Yourself If You’re Sending Intimate Selfie Photos

13Dec

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Here’s A Legally Safer Way To Protect Yourself If You’re Sending Intimate Selfie Photos

If you’re sending intimate photos, taking a selfie is legally safer – here’s how to protect yourself. If you’ve considered sending a sexy photo, you’re not alone: research shows that up to 15% of adolescents and 48% of adults have sent sexually explicit texts or images. There’s no shame in sending intimate photos to a partner, but it’s not without risk. If someone betrays your trust and shares them online or with others, it is a form of abuse that can lead to lifelong psychological harm. It may also soon be illegal. New provisions in the UK’s online safety bill currently making its way through parliament will make it a criminal sexual offence to share private, sexual images without consent. They will also make it a crime to “cyberflash” someone – sending an unsolicited nude. If your photo...

28Jun

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Staying Calm When Bumping Into Your Ex

Bumping into an ex after your breakup is always an emotional and overwhelming experience, it can leave you feeling very awkward and anxious which is not the best feeling in the world to feel. From the moment that you first see your ex, your heart starts to race, you suddenly start to feel all sweaty and very uncomfortable and in that moment you have no idea how you will react, if you will manage to get a word out of your mouth or if you will completely lose control and make a scene. But this is the moment that you need to pull yourself together, stay calm and remember the tips below. Things to remember when bumping into your ex: • Keep it Short and Sweet Take a deep breath and keep yourself calm and confident, smile and say hello and then walk away. • Try not to engage in a long conversat...

5 Online Dating Tips That Men Shouldn’t Do Without

13Dec

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5 Online Dating Tips That Men Shouldn’t Do Without

Know what you want Before you create your online dating profile, sit down and think about what you are really out for. The kind of woman you would like to meet which includes her personality, hobbies, attitudes, her general disposition, qualifications etc. This will serve as a guide for you as you will be able to go after the woman of your dreams. Try to make this part of your profile but put it in a positive manner that won't turn off your kinda girl. This will also make the woman see you as someone who is focused and she also will work towards being that kind of woman. Take charge Play the lead role. Don't expect a lady to be too forward for your sake, they might feel cheap. Ladies will expect you to play your role by taking charge. Make her feel relaxed and safe. You can ask a girl you...

Multiple Personalities — Which One Are You?

14Nov

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Multiple Personalities — Which One Are You?

Do You Have Multiple Personalities? The human being is not only what he knows about himself, but also what belongs to his immense primitive conscience, which is wild and evil. That's why we observe the existence of many personalities in some patients' psychic spheres. They have absurd characteristics, since they are derived from the primitive conscience and their actions are always harmful. It is confirmed that some psychotic patients have double or multiple personalities and they are dominated by one of the personalities when their behavior is opposite to the behavior of their main personality. However, this is a very common phenomenon that occurs with many normal or neurotic people, but since their second personality is not so different from the main one, they are unaware of their mult...

13Dec

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Cougar – What’s In A Name?

I used to hate the term "Cougar" for all the obvious reasons. First, it evoked images of Mrs. Robinson in a girdle and garters, smoke billowing around her alcoholic head as she seduced a vulnerable (but willing) Benjamin. Flash forward to leopard clad women over 40 showing way too much cleavage, voguing in 4 inch stilettos, hanging out at bars, guzzling wine and dragging home young prey. Every time the media interviewed me, I cringed, knowing the obvious questions would be asked: "Isn't this just about sex?" "Isn't this just about money?" I endeavored to explain to them that in my 20 years of research as a human behavior research psychologist and world's foremost authority on cross generational dating and psychosexual imprinting (translation: Cougar and Cub dating) that they had it all wro...

13Dec

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An Ode To Friendship!

What is friendship? Well, friendship is too vast a concept or a relationship for a clear-cut definition. In fact, it always remains better-off undefined, and even unfathomable. For practical purposes though, friendships are based on mutual likes, mutual respect, mutual love and a whole limitless world of mutuality. Some friends are made instantly, on the first exchange of mutual likes or in line with that saying 'love at first sight' being replaced with 'friendship at first sight', while some others take time to bloom into a perfect relationship. It is not necessary to have everything in common to be friends: friends can have diametrically opposite interests or even ideologies or passions or professions and yet be the best of friends. Mind you, like marriages friends are not made in heaven...

13Dec

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With No Strings Attached Relationships

No stringed attached relationship is about casual relationships with no commitment. Friends with benefits never work. A no stringed attached relationship is about sex, not friendship. In fact, as long as you're single, you're allowed to date anybody other than your hookup friends. If you start investing energy with someone at one point in your life will befuddle the lines of your relationship. The relationship is just plain sex and that's it, so keep it that way. So as to remain unattached, you have to keep things on a need-to-know premise. Try not to talk about your days, contemplation, inclinations, or any personal subtleties of your lives. After you're finished with the deed, don't stay nearby. There are no sleepovers here. He just needs to fulfill you physically, not inwardly, so keep...