Wednesday, April 8

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Should Women Care If Men Are In A Loneliness Epidemic?
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Should Women Care If Men Are In A Loneliness Epidemic?

Men Are in a Loneliness Epidemic. Should Women Care? Caring is a tricky word for many women, as it brims with gendered expectations of labor, open availability, and mental load. Let’s look at men by numbers: The vast majority of CEOs are men (in fact, it was only this past April that women CEOs finally outnumbered CEOs named John.); 93% of world leaders are men; 87% of billionaires are men; 84% of all Pulitzer Prizes awarded in the last 100 years went to men. And if we’re painting by numbers, it’s easy to step back and assume that men—especially those privileged across race, class, and ability—are doing well. But this is only part of the picture. In 2017, Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy penned an essay for the Harvard Business Review, where he named loneliness a growing health epidemic. T...
Online Groups Toe The Line Between Protecting Women And Defaming Men
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Online Groups Toe The Line Between Protecting Women And Defaming Men

Are We Dating The Same Guy? Online groups toe the line between protecting women and defaming men. Infidelity and deception have always been part of dating and relationships. Traditionally managed privately between the parties or through legal processes, these issues have recently been co-opted by online vigilante communities that shame daters — men in particular — who behave badly. But are these online communities about more than shaming? Do they also safeguard women from getting exploited or hurt? These questions are being debated in London, Ont., where a man featured on the Facebook group “Are We Dating the Same Guy? London, Ontario” launched a defamation lawsuit against one of its administrators alleging he was called names, accused of sending lewd photos and labelled a bad parent. As s...
A Love Story Between A Black Progressive Woman And A White Conservative Man
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A Love Story Between A Black Progressive Woman And A White Conservative Man

What’s wrong with a love story between a Black progressive woman and a white conservative man? Must we accommodate political differences in our closest relationships? Or should politics and doing what’s right trump love and happiness? These are the questions at the heart of the extraordinary – and controversial – debut novel Everything’s Fine by Cecilia Rabess, a Black woman and former associate at Goldman Sachs. Jess, a young, progressive Black woman, and Josh, a white conservative, meet at university – where their political views make them natural opponents, if not enemies. But the book begins as their paths cross again: Jess becomes an investment analyst at Goldman Sachs, where Josh’s career is already taking off. Despite their differences, a friendship blooms. Chemistry crackles and...
Crucial Online Dating Safety Tips For Looking For Love On The Web Newbies
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Crucial Online Dating Safety Tips For Looking For Love On The Web Newbies

Looking For Love On The Web: 5 Crucial Online Dating Safety Tips For Newbies. Are you ready to dive into online dating? Though digital dating apps and sites can be exciting, it’s important to follow these online dating safety tips first. Online dating is more popular than ever. In fact, around 40 percent of American couples now first meet online. Clearly, if you play the game right, online dating can actually help you find that special someone. But, even though online dating apps are a great way to meet people, they can also be quite dangerous. This is because pretty much everyone you encounter in the online dating world is a stranger, and these strangers can say anything they want about themselves. So, how do you make sure you stay safe when dating online? Check out this guide to learn ab...
The Best Dating Advice For “Single And Ready To Mingle” Seniors Looking For The Perfect Match
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The Best Dating Advice For “Single And Ready To Mingle” Seniors Looking For The Perfect Match

Single and Ready to Mingle?: The Best Dating Advice for Single Seniors Looking for the Perfect Match. Nearly 18 percent of single Americans are aged 65 and over. If you’re one of these 19.5 million single seniors, you might have bought into the lie that your best opportunities for love and romance have come and gone. But, since you’re reading this post, deep down you know that it’s never too late to find love. And, if the possibility of a new romance ignites a tingle of excitement, it’s definitely time to cast aside any negative ideas about senior dating and put yourself out there! Read on to learn the best dating advice for single seniors. Consider Dating Sites Things have changed a lot since you were first on the dating scene, especially in the last few years with the arrival of datin...
Finding Love Even If You Are Already In Your Forties
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Finding Love Even If You Are Already In Your Forties

Love is awesome and unnerving regardless of when you discover it. Be that as it may, searching for affection after 40 accompanies its very own one of a kind delights and challenges. By the time you arrive at your 40s, there are numerous potential ways your life may have taken to get you to where you are. Possibly you've had a considerable amount of dissatisfaction, dismissal, and anguish, however while you can't delete your past, you can absolutely gain from it. Truth be told, "when you're in our 40s, you can truly utilize those beneficial encounters. It's not simply that you know yourself and what works and doesn't work seeing someone, it's that when you arrive at your 40s, you've presumably felt the enchantment of affection. When you're single in your 40s, a few people respond to you ...
Love Bombing: Are Some People Easy Targets For ‘Love Bombers’?
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Love Bombing: Are Some People Easy Targets For ‘Love Bombers’?

If one was single and they were to meet someone who showed a lot of interest in them, they could find that they end up being drawn to them. And what might also play a part here is that one may be physically attracted to them. Through being in this person's presence, one could start to experience a lot of positive feelings. In a way, it could be as if this person is a breath of fresh air; with them being someone who has come into their life to make it better. A Fast Build Up After the first encounter, it might not be long until the other person is acting in a ways or talking about things that wouldn't usually take place or be mentioned for quite some time. It will be clear that the other person doesn't want to take their time and to allow everything to develop organically. It will be lik...
Are Traditional Heterosexual Romances Sexist?
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Are Traditional Heterosexual Romances Sexist?

Is traditional heterosexual romance sexist? Despite progress towards greater gender equality, many people remain stubbornly attached to old-fashioned gender roles in romantic relationships between women and men. Conventions around heterosexual romance dictate that men should approach women to initiate romantic interactions, ask women out on dates, pay on dates, make marriage proposals, and that women should take their husband’s surname after marriage. While some might view these conventions as sexist and anachronistic, others find them captivating and romantic. They reflect differentiated gender roles in which men take the lead and women follow. Feminist critiques of such practices argue that they reinforce male dominance over women in intimate relationships. So we set out to find out why ...
Philosophy Can Help Us Become Better Friends
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Philosophy Can Help Us Become Better Friends

Friday essay: how philosophy can help us become better friends. Friends, family, lovers – these are three mainstays in our intimate lives. We typically expect familial relationships to be solid, essentially for life. In our romantic lives, we search for the “one” to be with for life. Friendships seem less important, at least in comparison. It is easy to think about friends as people who come and go with the seasons of life. This could be a massive miscalculation. There is a case to be made that friendship is not the third wheel to these other, more significant relationships. Losing friends can be extremely painful. I was working as an ordained minister in the Anglican Church when I gave up my faith and ran off with a fellow church worker (who is still the love of my life). This had profoun...
How To Defend Yourself Against Online Romance Scams And Scammers
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How To Defend Yourself Against Online Romance Scams And Scammers

Online romance scams: Research reveals scammers’ tactics – and how to defend against them. In the Netflix documentary “The Tinder Swindler,” victims exposed notorious con artist Simon Leviev, who posed as a wealthy diamond mogul on the popular dating app Tinder to deceive and scam numerous women out of millions of dollars. Leviev is a flashy example of a dating scammer, but criminal operations also prey on emotionally vulnerable people to gain their trust and exploit them financially. The internet has revolutionized dating, and there has been a surge in U.S. adults using apps to find ideal matches post-pandemic. While these apps offer convenience for connecting with romantic partners, they also open the door to online romance scams. Criminals create both deceptive profiles and urgent scena...