Sunday, January 11

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How Can I Get My Lesbian Girlfriend Back?
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How Can I Get My Lesbian Girlfriend Back?

A hard fact of life is that relationships can break down. Most lesbians go through such an experience at least once, and sadly you've found yourself in this painful situation. Even though you've been dumped, you still care about your ex. Things may look bad, but there is still hope for your relationship if you take the right steps. Here are three critical things you must do if you want to get your ex-girlfriend back. 1. Keep your mouth shut. If there is to be any chance of reconciliation, you must watch your tongue and not speak poorly of your ex-girlfriend to other people. The lesbian community can be small and intertwined. Realize that you just never know who is friends with whom. Anything negative you say about your ex-lover has the potential to get back to her. Gossip spreads quickly! ...
Did You Know Jilted Lovers Could Once Sue For Breach Of Promise — Was Something Lost In Abolishing This Law?
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Did You Know Jilted Lovers Could Once Sue For Breach Of Promise — Was Something Lost In Abolishing This Law?

Friday essay: jilted lovers could once sue for breach of promise – did we lose something in abolishing this law? Just a few lines to my ever dear Beattie. My dear love. I am nearly mad. Dear love, I love the ground you walk upon. My dear love. I pity you from the bottom of my heart. You are my love for life. I think it is a yarn about my wife being alive … I think it is spite … Dear, I would like to see you … On a squally autumn day in Sydney in March 1914, Beatrice Storey, a barmaid, sued Frederick Chapman, a farmer, for abandoning her on the day of their wedding. To be precise, she claimed £1,000 damages in the New South Wales Supreme Court for breach of promise of marriage, a suit that could be used to claim compensation for injuries arising from a broken engagement. Beatrice had fir...
Self-Help For A Broken Heart Those First Few Weeks
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Self-Help For A Broken Heart Those First Few Weeks

The person you hoped to spend your life with has left you, for whatever reason, and your heart is broken. Initially, that pain and heart-ache is unbearable and you don't know how you're going to get through the next minute, let alone the next day. Obviously, you need to go through a grieving process for the lost relationship, and that will take time. However, you can help yourself through the first acute stages of pain and distress with these simple, natural remedies and healing exercises. Crystal Healing Take a piece of Rose Quartz or Rhodochrosite crystal. Cleanse it in running water, and then keep the crystal with you at all times. You can also hold the crystal and focus on its energy while breathing slowly for a few minutes. Mentally make a connection with the crystal, and ask its ene...
Staying Calm When Bumping Into Your Ex
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Staying Calm When Bumping Into Your Ex

Bumping into an ex after your breakup is always an emotional and overwhelming experience, it can leave you feeling very awkward and anxious which is not the best feeling in the world to feel. From the moment that you first see your ex, your heart starts to race, you suddenly start to feel all sweaty and very uncomfortable and in that moment you have no idea how you will react, if you will manage to get a word out of your mouth or if you will completely lose control and make a scene. But this is the moment that you need to pull yourself together, stay calm and remember the tips below. Things to remember when bumping into your ex: • Keep it Short and Sweet Take a deep breath and keep yourself calm and confident, smile and say hello and then walk away. • Try not to engage in a long conversat...
After A Breakup Who Keeps The Engagement Ring? Why You Might Want A Prenup For Your Diamond
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After A Breakup Who Keeps The Engagement Ring? Why You Might Want A Prenup For Your Diamond

Who keeps the engagement ring after a breakup? 2 law professors explain why you might want a prenup for your diamond. When Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck got engaged the first time, in 2002, he gave her a very pricey ring. That engagement ring was reportedly worth as much as $2.5 million, made by luxury jeweler Harry Winston and adorned with a 6.1-carat pink diamond. After the movie stars broke up in 2004 without getting married, J. Lo said she intended to return the ring “quietly” to Affleck. Whether or she ever did that or not, was Lopez entitled to keep the that rock or any of the others she got from her numerous ex-husbands and former fiancés? The answer can matter to anyone who is engaged, married – or even thinking about tying the knot. No one knows for sure how many engagements end ...
Social Media Always Remembers – Which Makes Moving On From A Breakup That Much Harder
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Social Media Always Remembers – Which Makes Moving On From A Breakup That Much Harder

Before the internet, people commonly burned Polaroids and love letters in a fire as an act of closure following a breakup. Nowadays, it isn’t so simple. People produce and consume massive amounts of digital stuff – 33 trillion gigabytes of online data in 2018 alone, a number that has surely grown. Even as more and more of daily life is experienced and documented online, there’s no playbook for how to navigate breakups in the digital age. In the past, if bonfires weren’t your thing, you could simply throw out love letters, gifts and photographs, or put them in a box and store them in the attic – out of sight and out of mind. Now, as you scroll through your accounts, you might find yourself returning to your own memories – including reminders of your former partners, which live on long af...
How To Heal Yourself & Begin To Move On From A Broken Relationship
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How To Heal Yourself & Begin To Move On From A Broken Relationship

Are you newly single? Have you just come out of a relationship or marriage? Failed relationships can be painful and challenging to overcome. While the most common solution is to rebound into another relationship, these relationships rarely survive beyond a few months. And even if they do, they mostly work more like a compromise. The best way out is to take advantage of your new relationship status by learning from the past and recreating your life. A breakup or divorce can be a positive experience if you choose to learn from it. Learn from a failed relationship and prepare to receive your future partner: What's the lesson? Every failed relationship provides at least one significant lesson. What was it? Relationships typically fail either due to errors in choosing a partner or errors in ...
Signs He Is Ending The Affair
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Signs He Is Ending The Affair

When an affair is ending it will normally end from one person who wants out... and then the other realizes (or is told) that it's over. Do you get the feeling that he wants out of the affair? What are the signs that he is ending the affair? i. His emotional interest in you has waned completely. A man who is ending an affair is no longer emotionally vested in you... at least not as fully as he once was. It's not the naturally waning of emotions but a totally lack of interest in you. No spontaneous touching, hugging, cuddling, kissing or other touchy things. He simply has no need or desire to touch you! ii. He has no time for you and the things that you care about. A man who is ending the affair will no longer want to be with you or to do those things that would make you happy. He will spe...
MUST READ: Knowing When To End A Relationship
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MUST READ: Knowing When To End A Relationship

Relationships can enrich our lives, but they can also cause damage. Whether it's a friend, family member, or significant other, any relationship comes with its share of challenges. And more often than not, putting in the effort to resolve relational issues can and does result in a healthier bond. But there are those relationships that, no matter the amount of work and goodwill put into them, will never bring a return on your time or heart investment. These relationships are toxic, and they need to be ended in order for you to heal and move on. 3 Signs the Relationship Needs to End For Example, Are there are More Negative Interactions Than Positive Ones? Every relationship has its good interactions and its not-so-good ones. But there are those relationships that seem like every interact...
So Your Ex Boyfriend Doing The No Contact – How To Emotionally Handle This
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So Your Ex Boyfriend Doing The No Contact – How To Emotionally Handle This

"My ex boyfriend is doing no contact, I miss him so much!" That begins many conversations that women have in the days following their break up. They wake up one day, text their ex boyfriend, try to call him and then make the difficult realization that he's following the no contact rule. The knowledge that the man you still love is purposefully ignoring you is a bitter pill to swallow. It's harsh and it's real. It stings and it can leave a woman obsessed with the broken relationship and what she can do to fix it. It's natural to feel overwhelmed and incredibly worried when you come to terms with the fact that your ex is no longer talking to you. Instead of panicking, there is a better way. Acceptance is going to help you immeasurably and may even be the key to getting him to come back to yo...