Tuesday, January 13

LIFESTYLE

What Do You Want From A Love Relationship?
RELATIONSHIPS

What Do You Want From A Love Relationship?

I have the privilege of knowing quite a few brilliant people. Through conversations with them, I am able to express some of my most complicated and important thoughts. Last month I was speaking with Linda. She has a Ph.D. in Leadership and Organization and is an educator and life and executive coach. And she has an enormous amount of experience as a professional, especially at a high level. On this particular day, she and I were talking about relationships. She asked me what I wanted from a woman. After I answered, she thought the conversation was worthy of sharing with others who struggle with making relationships work. Part of the conversation went like this: Ted: In an intimate relationship, a woman should just give a man what he wants. If she gives him what he wants, the relationship ...
Meeting People From Different Cultural Backgrounds
DATING

Meeting People From Different Cultural Backgrounds

It is always exciting for me to meet people from different cultural backgrounds. It always thrilled me to learn about the culture of people I met from the different parts of the world. In my stay here in Malaysia, I am very lucky to have stayed in a guest house that caters all migrants from other countries. I was able to meet French, Russians, Dutch, Swedish, Hindi, Japanese, Chinese, Spanish, Malaysians and the like. It is very important also to learn to speak their language. Even a basic understanding of another language can help build bonds with people who speak another language. Concentrate on learning the languages and learn how to speak proficiently. You'll be able to have conversations with new friends in a language they feel most comfortable speaking. When you interact with peop...
Have A Life Before Becoming A Wife
RELATIONSHIPS

Have A Life Before Becoming A Wife

Women, ever wonder why you are having so many issues in your relationship? Ever wondered why you can't find a good husband? Yes, we know that some of the best men are either married or gay. However, contrary to popular opinion, there are good men out there and yes, they are single AND available. So how do you go about attracting those men short of going to a "Seeking Men for Jesus" gathering? How do you go about getting a man to work on himself to become the kind of husband you desire? You do that by beginning to work on becoming complete within Yourself INSTEAD of seeking someone to complete You. Are you ready to be a wife? Do you have your own life with your own thing going on or are you seeking a man to fill your life and give you purpose? If a man is the only thing you have going on in...
Ladies The Best Tips To Polish Up Your Profile
DATING

Ladies The Best Tips To Polish Up Your Profile

Dating apps - the modern way to date. Media portrayal of "when dates go wrong" has taken isolated incidents and made them the norm, so the likelihood of meeting somebody in a bar and starting something new is now very small. People just don't trust each other. Dating apps make dating safe and easy. Scrolling through profiles and choosing whether you like them or not has never been easier. It's like shopping for your soulmate and you get an entire aisle to pick one from. All of them are different in their own way, but a lot are the same in many ways too. I have been using dating apps for over a year, have had my own degree of success. I have decided to write this, with a view to pointing out, from a man's perspective, why the women on dating apps become unattractive, despite how they may lo...
Online Dating — Is It the Best Option To Find True Love?
DATING

Online Dating — Is It the Best Option To Find True Love?

Online dating has become quite popular as it fits perfectly well into the busy lives that we all lead. If you are single and ready to mingle, then these dating sites are the best way to get in touch with other singles in your area. There are no boundaries here; you can hook up with someone in your city or in another country. Online dating sites help you to search for like-minded partners. You can use the extended search criteria to find someone of a particular age, sex, location and also based on interests and hobbies. People go to great lengths to find happiness in life, but it all tends to amount to very little if one does not have the best possible companion or partner. If you are looking for love or companionship then you shouldn't leave it to chance; you can make use of technology to ...
Here Comes The Sun (Signs) – Romance, Astrology And You – Earth Signs
LOVE

Here Comes The Sun (Signs) – Romance, Astrology And You – Earth Signs

TAURUS - (April 21 - May 21) Taurus is ruled by Venus and its symbol is the bull. Taurus is an Earth sign which is connected with fruitfulness and stability. You love luxury and sensual comforts such as silky satin sheets, robes fit for a king or queen and beautiful surroundings. You seek comfort, security and beauty. A perfect romance to you is one that is harmonious and beautiful, even if a bit materialistic. Because of your fondness for pretty things, you will proudly display your possessions and purchasing power. You are easygoing, calm, and comfortable to be around. You enjoy sharing "quiet times" with your love interest and also get excited about everyday activities such as shopping and cooking and dining. You tend to be stubborn and will do whatever you can to get what you want. Whe...
I Want The Playgirl, But They Like The “Bad Boy” Type
DATING

I Want The Playgirl, But They Like The “Bad Boy” Type

Dear Dr. Romance: This is something that's puzzling me for along time. I often do want the "playgirl", but they like the more of the "bad boy" type. I know for sure I want sex without strings attached, many men get this, but I simply attract women who want a boyfriend, and I don't want this! It seems as if society is saying, cause I'm a nice guy, I must be trapped into a commitment to get what I want which is sex. The women that are attracted to me are not at my standard level. I know this for a fact. They are not equal to me. They are trying to get a "catch" and something out of their league. I simply can't accept this. However I'm miserable and tormented. But I can't settle for what I don't want either. Dear Reader: Men have fantasized about two categories of women for centuries: the "g...
Planning A Second Wedding? What To Consider (And What To Ignore)
RELATIONSHIPS

Planning A Second Wedding? What To Consider (And What To Ignore)

Modern-day etiquette suggests that a second wedding is just as much of a special event as the first While 90 percent of people in America marry, 40 to 50 percent of couples divorce, according to the American Psychological Association. Yet, many divorcees remarry. Do the same rules apply for the second wedding as for the first? The opinion expressed at marthastewartweddings.com is: “Modern-day etiquette suggests that a second wedding is just as much of a special event as the first.” The site’s second marriage etiquette tips include: ‒ Pick and choose any or all traditions of a first wedding, (i.e. host a wedding shower, wear white, find something blue and something borrowed, etc.). ‒ Involve children if the marriage will result in a blended family. ‒ Make sure children, family and – depend...
Are Dating Apps Passe?
DATING

Are Dating Apps Passe?

Online dating fatigue – why some people are turning to face-to-face apps first. For the last two-plus years, people hoping to meet their soulmate in person have had a rough time. Lockdowns and uncertainty about social gatherings have led many people to turn to dating apps. People who feel they have lost months or years of their dating life may be eager to avoid the perils of dating apps – ghosting, backburner relationships, or just wasting time chatting with the wrong people. People are eager to meet in person, and the menu of dating apps is expanding to accommodate this. In addition to the likes of Tinder, Hinge and Bumble, there are apps that focus on bringing people together in person. One of these is an increasingly popular app called Thursday. It is live just once a week (on Thursday...
The Romantic Rejection
SEX-CAPADES

The Romantic Rejection

How to cope with romantic rejection – a psychologist’s advice Has a romantic partner, or someone you had a crush on, ever hurt your feelings? You’re far from alone. Very few people can boast a 100% success rate when it comes to attracting love interests. And even for those who have more “hits” than “misses”, no partner is capable of always being attentive to our needs, leading to conflicts, disappointments and breakups. Given the ubiquity of romantic rejection, why is it often so challenging to respond in adaptive rather than destructive ways? Humans are social creatures. Millennia of relying on our family and broader social communities for survival means that we have evolved complex psychological monitoring systems to track whether we are safely connected with others – or at risk of bein...