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How To Make The Most Of Sexual Pleasuring

13Dec

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How To Make The Most Of Sexual Pleasuring

Sexuality is about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover. We experience sensual, emotional and erotic pleasure. People of both sexes regardless of orientation have different sexual appetites. Ideally there's a match of intellect, curiosity, imagination, sense of humor and concern for hygiene. There are three main categories of anatomy. The sex organ is involved in orgasm and the internal genital organs in reproduction. The erogenous zones relate to sensual pleasuring and may include any part of the body. Male and female erogenous zones are similar in anatomical terms. They include the labia or the length of the penis, either side of the labia or the testicles, the entrance to the vagina or the base of the penis, the perineum and the anus. For a man there is also the prostate gland beside t...

13Dec

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How Couples Can Communicate Over Sex

Images and stories of women apparently enjoying sex abound in fictional media. Even a responsive woman, who has the experience of orgasm through masturbation doubts the inevitable conclusion from her own experience. But it is much more difficult for women who never experience orgasm. They have nothing to replace the fiction with. Most women conclude that these fictional experiences must be true for some undefined other women. At the same time, all the ego and bravado causes others to conclude that it is all a hoax. But this private conclusion is never promoted. There is no reliable source of sex information. So women never know what they can realistically expect from their sexual experiences. Women themselves rarely compare notes over sex honestly. Most women are too embarrassed to discuss...

Mother Enmeshed Men: Is Mother-Enmeshed Man Destined To Have A Breakdown?

13Dec

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Mother Enmeshed Men: Is Mother-Enmeshed Man Destined To Have A Breakdown?

Although a man can come across as needless and create the impression that he is happy to be there for his mother, this is likely to be nothing more than a facade. The truth is that he will have needs and abandoning himself is going to causing him to suffer. However, he will deny his own needs and he won't acknowledge how he truly feels; this is why he will be able to behave in this way. It won't be that he is consciously choosing to be in denial, though; as he won't even be aware of what is going on. Hidden This defense, along with others, wouldn't work if he was actually aware of what was going on; it will only work if he is oblivious to it. To keep this defense in place, he will need to use a lot of his energy to keep his needs and true feelings at bay. As this is so, a lot of his energ...

Designer Babies – Soon To Be The Norm In Reproductive Healthcare

12Dec

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Designer Babies – Soon To Be The Norm In Reproductive Healthcare

When human desires and wants are quantified as unalienable rights, then, ethics and morals become easily compromised, and a disaster often awaits. Designer babies will soon be the norm in reproductive healthcare, a reflection of desire passed off as an individual right. Soon, a couple will be able to walk in a reproductive healthcare facility and select all the features that they would prefer their child to have or not have. If permitted from clinical trials to practical applications, couples will have the freedom and right, depending on affordability, to decide the features that their child will have, in the process creating a child that they want. Therefore, based on their preference, a couple can decide to have a child with green eyes, less chances of becoming obese, high probability o...

Inside The Messy Psychology Of Sexual Double Standards – Cheating’s OK For Me, But Not For Thee

12Dec

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Inside The Messy Psychology Of Sexual Double Standards – Cheating’s OK For Me, But Not For Thee

David M. Buss, The University of Texas at Austin College of Liberal Arts Sexual double standards – in which women and men are judged differently for the same sexual behavior – will probably sound familiar to most people. The classic one centers on multiple sexual partners: Men who are promiscuous are lauded as “studs,” “lotharios” or “ladies’ men,” while women who have a lot of sex get called “sluts” or “whores.” Men who cheat on their wives aren’t exactly praised, but they’ll often get a pass. Women who do the same, on the other hand, risk sullying their social reputations. There’s a different sexual double standard, however, and it’s one that exists between two partners. In my new book, “When Men Behave Badly: The Hidden Roots of Sexual Deception, Harassment, and Assault,” I spend so...

Virtual Is Here To Stay: 5 Creative Ways People Are Connecting In A Digital World

13Dec

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Virtual Is Here To Stay: 5 Creative Ways People Are Connecting In A Digital World

(BPT) - A year into the pandemic and a virtual lifestyle is the reality for many people. Remote work and online education are just the start - many people have taken a virtual approach to the way they shop, socialize, stay connected with friends and family, and much more. The interesting thing is that research shows this shift is here to stay. "Working remotely has accelerated the use of video meeting platforms that keep us connected, whether that's through a computer, mobile device or - as we ease back to offices - conference room system," says John Knightly, chief marketing officer for BlueJeans by Verizon. "What's interesting is our research shows that these platforms are being used for personal reasons more frequently than ever before. People are handling personal to-do's and connectin...

The Misconceptions That Arise From Pornography

12Dec

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The Misconceptions That Arise From Pornography

Women can engage in sexual activity indefinitely because they are unresponsive with a lover. In porn, so-called multiple orgasms offer a way of explaining how women could apparently be re-aroused indefinitely. Porn actresses moan intermittently throughout the male performance. They build in some smaller climaxes along the way to bring the man on. It's as if women are aroused and re-aroused on a never-ending basis until the man has had his orgasm. Finally when the man is about to ejaculate, the woman is miraculously also simultaneously satisfied. Ideally she brings her vocal accompaniment to a final crescendo coincident with the man's orgasm. Porno actresses provide vocal accompaniment as a male turn-on. Men don't have to make all that noise to convince a lover that they have had an orgasm...

Sex As A Bargaining Chip In Loving Relationships

13Dec

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Sex As A Bargaining Chip In Loving Relationships

Relationships of any kind are an inevitable compromise. No two individuals, even of the same sex, have exactly the same priorities at exactly the same time. When we are single, we can focus on our own selfish needs. But when we have a relationship with another person, we need to consider their needs as well as our own. Sometimes these two demands conflict. A key principle of heterosexuality is that a woman offers intercourse on her terms. Intercourse is a privilege that a woman confers on a man as a sign of her approval. Naturally this causes men to feel controlled by women. A woman wants a man to be affectionate, interested in her concerns and willing to respect her wishes (requests she makes about issues that she cares about). Many men reject these requests as unimportant because they se...

How A Woman Can Interest A Man In Having Sex

13Dec

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How A Woman Can Interest A Man In Having Sex

In the early days of a relationship, a couple may explore different approaches to pleasuring. Given women's sexual passivity, it is typically the man who takes the sexual initiative. A man has the motivation to explore a lover's body because he is aroused by doing so. A woman is not. Typically men try different approaches to sexual pleasuring with the boundaries set by a woman's objections. Over time instead of this random and silent approach, a couple may want to invest in more open communication about their sex life. A woman could suggest, outside the bedroom, the activities she would like to try or how she would like a lover to stimulate her. Women should be more proactive with a lover. If a woman has read erotic literature or watched porn movies, she may identify with the role of givin...

Helping Make Society More Respectful And Equitable – Nurturing Dads Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids

9Dec

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Helping Make Society More Respectful And Equitable – Nurturing Dads Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids

Kevin Shafer, Brigham Young University When my oldest son, now nearly 13, was born in July of 2008, I thought I could easily balance my career and my desire to be far more engaged at home than my father and his generation were. I was wrong. Almost immediately, I noticed how social policies, schools and health care systems all make it difficult for dads to be highly involved and engaged at home. Contradictory expectations about work and family life abound. As a fatherhood researcher with four kids of my own, I am convinced that fathers are transformative figures for children, families and communities. But a man’s mere presence, paycheck and willingness to punish misbehaving children is not nearly enough. Many of the benefits of fathering for children come from dads being nurturing, lovi...