Saturday, April 11

LIFESTYLE

Leaving Home To Be With Someone You Love
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Leaving Home To Be With Someone You Love

We have all been in love once or twice in our lives. And we all felt like moving in and living with the other person forever. Some relationships worked out, some have not. Despite that, we all had that rush feeling of leaving home for love. But is it the right thing to do? Are we rational when we take a decision that is tied with love or are we acting on an irrational base? When should anyone move out from their house and with their current boyfriend or girlfriend? What should you consider before moving out? Here is what you should take into consideration before leaving home for love:   Age - before you even consider leaving home, you should ask yourself if you are not too young to do so. 16, 17 and even 18 can be considered too young to move out and be with the person they l...
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How to Prevent Break-Up or Divorce
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How to Prevent Break-Up or Divorce

As a Marriage & Family Therapist for over 40 years, I have counseled many couples. With the goal of improving their relationships, I helped them understand themselves and each other, practice constructive communication, express their resentments, make positive agreements, and create win-win solutions. Then I ask them to forgive themselves and each other for anything they did or said that was not loving. I tell them that they both did the best they could with the information they had, and now they know better. I believe that most people struggle with their partners, because love is not enough, and they lack the necessary insights and solutions. "It is like you want to build a house," I tell them, "but you have no manual or tools to succeed. Then you wonder why your relationship is stru...
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Your Partner’s Annoying Quirks
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Your Partner’s Annoying Quirks

"And that's when I shot her, your Honor" my husband says when he's annoyed with me, or had it with one of the many quirks I have that drive him crazy. That punch line never fails to make us laugh, and diffuse the situation. Why does the person you love most get on your nerves so badly? It's not that men are from Mars, or women are from Venus; it's more like we all grew up on different planets-and when planets collide, watch out! It seems logical that like would attract like, but in my private counseling practice, it's obvious that people are often drawn to their opposites. In a new relationship, it's adorable and exciting. It's not until partners become comfortable and more relaxed with each other, that all those new and exciting quirks become old and irritating. Familiarity makes those ...
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Why Does Love Feel Magical? It’s An Evolutionary Advantage
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Why Does Love Feel Magical? It’s An Evolutionary Advantage

In this age of science, many people see supernatural forces as illusions rooted in wishful thinking. But love remains a profound exception to humanity’s trend toward rationality. Evolutionary psychology may explain why magical thinking is so central to love. Viva Luna Studios via Unsplash, CC BY People are used to seeing romantic love presented as it is on the reality show “The Bachelor” – as a force cosmically bound to one’s destiny. It’s an idea that is at once laughable and uncannily relatable for anyone who has been in love and felt their pairing compellingly “meant to be.” Our research suggests that magical notions of fated love and soulmates are very common and deeply felt. As psychology researchers interested in why human beings think, feel and behave in the ways they do, we ask a...
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The Secret Formula To Successful Online Dating
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The Secret Formula To Successful Online Dating

If it seems as if everyone you know is online dating, you’re not alone. According to recent surveys, more than 40m single people out of 54m singles in the US have signed up to an online dating site such as Match.com and eHarmony. In the UK, 9.1m people have used an online dating site and one in every five new committed relationships starts online. There’s someone out there for everyone. _dChris, CC BY If it seems as if everyone you know is online dating, you’re not alone. According to recent surveys, more than 40m single people out of 54m singles in the US have signed up to an online dating site such as Match.com and eHarmony. In the UK, 9.1m people have used an online dating site and one in every five new committed relationships starts online. With more users, comes greater demand for t...
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Finding Your Soulmate In 7 Amazing Steps
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Finding Your Soulmate In 7 Amazing Steps

7 Amazing Steps to Finding Your Soulmate What is true matching about? It is about people that seem to be made for one another. But this may become a deceiving matter because matching begins with honesty. 1. The first you have to do is being honest with yourself, knowing who you are and what you are about. This issue tightly depends on your selfesteem, so work it out at this instant, always keep in mind a good image of yourself, this is the essence of being ready for your love! 2. Remember that unless you are ready to meet the love of your life, it won't come for you, because everything depends on how much you want it to happen. Wise men say that when you really want something, the whole Universe rearanges itself for making your wish come true. And believe me there is enough room for eve...
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How To Keep Any Relationship Healthy
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How To Keep Any Relationship Healthy

With all of the advice out there on how to rebuild your relationship, why not look at tips to keep your already healthy relationship in tact? There are plenty of things that you should avoid in order to make your relationship with your wife or girlfriend from unnecessary miscommunication as well as arguments. In fact, these tips can help you in every relationship that you have - read on. DON'T be right all the time There's nothing more frustrating in a relationship than a person who insists that they are always right. No one is right all of the time, and it's time that you realized that. It takes a much stronger person to admit that they were wrong than it is for someone to not admit that they may have made a mistake. Don't be the know it all. DON'T refuse to apologize You will have so...
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‘Blue Balls’ Shouldn’t Be Used To Pressure Partners, There’s No Evidence They’re Harmful
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FOR THE M

‘Blue Balls’ Shouldn’t Be Used To Pressure Partners, There’s No Evidence They’re Harmful

‘Blue balls’: There’s no evidence they’re harmful, and they shouldn’t be used to pressure partners into sex. What are blue balls? Most people — health-care providers included — are familiar with this term referring to scrotal discomfort experienced in response to prolonged sexual arousal without orgasm. Although no one knows how the pain of blue balls develops, most implicate the slowed drainage of blood from the testicles in the absence of orgasm during sexual arousal. One of the key physiological aspects of sexual arousal is increased blood flow to areas of the body, including the genitals. Genital-based signs of sexual arousal include engorgement of the genital structures leading to erection of the penis and external clitoris, and this engorgement usually resolves quickly after orgasm...
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What To Do With A Man That Has Commitment Phobia
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DATING

What To Do With A Man That Has Commitment Phobia

There are some men who make women feel very lovable and desirable. They lavish love and gifts on them, and make them feel very special. But when it comes to marriage, they back out. They have a great fear of getting tied to a single woman for life. They run away from the very idea of marriage. Their relationships never have fairy-tale endings; instead they are littered with heartbreaks. These men suffer from commitment phobia, a fear of committing themselves to one single woman. However, they don't hesitate to play the loving game. They go out of their way to make their women feel special. They woo them with all the passion that they can command. But they cool off once the woman talks of marriage. How to spot a commitment phobia For any woman it is important to spot commitment phobias -...
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What To Do With A Woman Who Has Commitment Phobia
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What To Do With A Woman Who Has Commitment Phobia

A woman with commitment phobia always feels insecure and vulnerable when it comes to marriage. She wants to postpone the decision; is often confused and does not know how to get out of the relationship. Unlike men, women with commitment phobia don't go around hunting for men. They develop natural relationships; relationships in which they believe but which they are not willing to sustain. In the process they not only hurt men but also hurt themselves. They find it very difficult to get out of such relationships. There is a feeling of guilt; sometimes even of remorse. But these feelings are overpowered by a strong feeling of fear. There is a great reluctance to approach the subject of marriage. At the same time, there is despair too. They don't want to let go the man who has brought such ha...
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