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A&A: Everything You Wanted To Know About Sexting, But Were Afraid To Ask

13Dec

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SEX-CAPADES

A&A: Everything You Wanted To Know About Sexting, But Were Afraid To Ask

Stories of teens taking and sending a naked picture of themselves with their phones have been all over the news media in recent years. The outcome? Shocking, according to reports which have suggested that humiliation and sometimes even suicide can follow. But what is the reality? Sexting is often seen as a dicey electronic version of “I’ll show you mine, you show me yours”. Many teens (and adults) engage in it. Indeed, some are suggesting that it is becoming a “normal” part of adolescent sexual development. And in general, few psychological problems (if any) are correlated with the behavior. Here’s the bottom line: research suggests that most photos don’t end up in disasters, either socially (being passed around, teased, bullied) or criminally (being prosecuted). Such outcomes are possible...

Is Sexting A Sign Of A Committed Relationship? – It Might Actually Be

13Dec

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Is Sexting A Sign Of A Committed Relationship? – It Might Actually Be

Why do people sext? Why do they send racy or naked photos or videos and sexually loaded texts? For a short-term hookup, sexting might seem like a direct way to get what you want – or at least try to. But according to my research, sexting is actually most likely to occur within a committed relationship. Some research suggests that people often engage in sexting after being coerced by romantic partners or to avoid an argument with their romantic partner. So perhaps anxiety and concern about what your romantic partner thinks about you promote behaviors like sexting. As a human development researcher who studies how technology influences relationships, I wanted to understand if people who are anxious about dating or about what their partner thinks of them are more likely to sext. So where d...

13Dec

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When Does Dating Become A Relationship?

When I talk about dating, I refer to initially meeting a person that there is an interest in, then getting to know and learn that person mentally, intellectually, and eventually romantically. More often than not, dating begins with two individuals being physically attracted to each other. This is usually the first step. Those two people then begin talking. The conversation gives each person an indication of how the other one thinks and rationalizes, although that is only a small indication. The initial conversation usually determines whether future conversations or interactions will take place between the two. Sometimes it only takes two minutes for someone to realize that they are not interested in getting to know the other person any further. Therefore, it stops right there, even though ...

The Healing Embrace Of Cobwebbing: A Post-Breakup Ritual

19Nov

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BREAK UP

The Healing Embrace Of Cobwebbing: A Post-Breakup Ritual

In the shadows of heartbreak, when the world feels inexplicably dim, it can be tempting to sink into despair. Yet, emerging from the ruins of a past love, there lies a transformative ritual that whispers stories of renewal: a cobwebbing spree. This unconventional practice encourages us not only to confront but also to embrace the tangle of our emotions, allowing us to sweep away the remnants of what once was, both physically and emotionally. Cobwebbing—just the word evokes imagery of dust motes dancing in golden sunlight, a soft vacuum of clarity amid the chaos of memories and emotions. As we gather our cleaning supplies, there’s a palpable energy in the air; it signifies the start of our journey inward. Each sweep of the cloth, each gentle wipe of the surface, serves as an invitation to ...

8 Tips For When You’ve Not Socialized In A While

13Dec

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DATING

8 Tips For When You’ve Not Socialized In A While

If you're a new parent, have perhaps had a change in personal circumstances, moved location or introduced a new lifestyle and are now being offered opportunities to go out when you've not socialized in a while it can be hard to motivate yourself to leave the house and make the effort to join in. - You may have apprehensions and concerns. What about money; how much will it cost, what about the incidentals like taxis or babysitters, nails, clothes and hairdressers? How about the other members of the group. Are they 'all' vibrant, sophisticated ladies or successful businessmen? Will I fit in, what about my conversational skills? - What if you do feel frumpy and out of date, not smart enough? Sometimes a small touch can make all the difference, like a new haircut, a brightly colored top, a di...

13Dec

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ATTRACTION

Are You A Cougar?

What is the cougar definition? Is there a 'real cougar' definition? What is the criteria for a cougar? In Wikipedia the term "Cougar" is considered slang for age disparity in sexual relationships. According to Wikipedia a "Cougar" is "A women, 35 years of age or older, who pursues younger men typically more than eight years her junior." Wikipedia's reference comes from UrbanDictionary.com. The origin of the word is debated it is rumored to have first started as a Canadian catch phrase given to certain older women. These women tended to gravitate and mingle with younger men. Apparently a group of guys labeled these particular women 'Cougars' and the rest is history. Originally the term was signified and associated with older women who perused young men for casual relations. However, si...

Can You Save Your Relationship After Cheating?

13Dec

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Can You Save Your Relationship After Cheating?

It will be hard however you can save your relationship after an affair. The discomfort of discovering that your partner has been unfaithful is tremendous and has to be dealt with. You can recuperate and move on to rebuilding trust after infidelity and ultimately having a fully healed relationship. You need to consider a few things for the affair recovery if you feel that both of you are truly meant for one another. - You may have invested years pulling further and further away, but do you still want each other? - Take inventory of all the important things you love about your partner. - Then consider all the things that irritate you. - The first check list should by all means be longer. Consider things like do you take pleasure in being with your partner, and does he/she make you laugh and ...

13Dec

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ATTRACTION

Nope, Opposites Do Not Attract

Everyone seems to agree that opposites attract. Young and old people, happy and distressed couples, single folks and married partners – all apparently buy the classic adage about love. Relationship experts have written books based on this assumption. It’s even been internalized by people who are on the hunt for a partner, with 86 percent of those looking for love saying they’re seeking someone with opposite traits. The problem is that what’s true of magnets is not at all true of romance. As I explain in my book, “Great Myths of Intimate Relationships: Dating, Sex, and Marriage,” people tend to be attracted to those who are similar – not opposite – to themselves. I love how you’re just like me Whether people really find opposites more attractive has been the subject of many scientific stud...

What To Do On A First Date (Tips For Men And Women)

13Dec

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DATING

What To Do On A First Date (Tips For Men And Women)

What to do on a first date? Well, first of all, congratulations on landing the date! It can be pretty daunting at first but just remember this, there is a reason that person decided they wanted the first date with you. She saw something in you and wants to get to know you better. He saw something in you that was appealing. Now, just remember to be yourself and enjoy yourself at the moment with them. Don't over think the process, just relax, be confident and have fun.Here are a few things to do on a first date: 1. Good impressions are lasting, don't be generic and just simply take them to the movies and dinner as every other person has done. But don't overdo it as well. Be proactive in setting up the mood and the date. Be punctual to the agreed-upon time. Not only does this show that you a...

Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother Raise Her Son To Be A Surrogate Spouse?

13Dec

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Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother Raise Her Son To Be A Surrogate Spouse?

Although some men are able to form healthy relationships with women, there are others that are unable to do so. There are, of course, a numbers of reasons as to why this is. For those that are unable to do so, it can be because they lack confidence or are emotionally disconnected. Then again, it can be because they have a fear of intimacy and don't feel comfortable getting close to a woman. Another Reason Alternatively, it can be due to the fact that they are too close to their mothers. As a result of how close they are to this person, it won't be possible for them to form an emotional connection to a woman. When a man experiences life in this way, getting close to a woman will most likely feel wrong. What should feel normal is then going to feel abnormal, preventing him from being able t...