We all need a friend who will talk us out of our bad ideas. Sagittarius isn’t one of them—especially if the idea promises to be a lot of fun and won’t hurt anyone too much (they hope) in the end. Anything that has the promise of being a good time is going to lure a Sagittarius in like a moth to a flame. They live by the idea that life is too short to be taken seriously. But when things do turn serious, Sagittarius has a surprising amount of depth and wisdom they are happy to share with their (often large and international) circle of friends.
As a lover, Sagittarius is a passionate and uninhibited lover, hoping to find a match with the same level of worldly exposure, high moral values, intellectual capacity, open-mindedness, and independence as their own. Like Aquarius, Sagittarius is keenly interested in social good and human rights, so meeting a match who can engage at that level is a total turn-on. Expect a long courtship as Sagittarius is renowned for getting married late in life. Marriage is a big commitment that this sign does not take lightly.
In some ways, it’s not so much that they fear commitment. Sagittarius is someone capable of putting their heart and soul into a dream. They just will not settle for anything less than the right person, along with high energy, heart palpitating, fireworks inducing magic. Love assets for the Sagittarius Sun Sign are passion, intensity, and imagination. The love challenges for those born under the Sagittarius zodiac sign are being unrealistic, flighty, and irresponsible.
Dating a Sagittarius
Sagittarius are born flirts. Playfully intellectual, they tease with wit and subtlety. There’s always a hidden prospect of excitement, adventure, and sex that is subtext to dancing, touching, and passionate conversation.
In dating, Sagittarius has fun both in the chasing and being chased. They can get addicted to the rush of a fledgling relationship, where everything is a mystery they’re still working out. Sagittarius can fall into a pattern of casual hookups or serial monogamy where they bop from partner to partner until they find The One who makes their mind work, their toes curl, and above all, is never boring. You almost must get in the mindset that you’ll be courting Sagittarius throughout the whole life of the relationship. But they will return the intensity and effort you put into it. Don’t expect a Sagittarius to make a commitment quickly. Though things will get physical fast, they will want to take the time to have long talks and memorable outings to make sure that you can keep up with their free spirit without trying to tame them.
Sagittarius favorite dates tend to be energetic and fun-filled. They like things that appear to their inner kid, like roller skating, challenging their dates in an arcade, or a trip to an amusement park. If the date goes well, they’ll love to spend some downtime afterward, talking about everything and nothing in particular.
Sagittarius Expectations in Relationship
For those born under the Sagittarius Sun Sign, love is a thrill ride alongside the person they love best. They love falling in love. What they don’t love is partners who demand too much of them, ask them to compromise their dreams, or issue ultimatums. All of those are the quickest way to make Sagittarius lose interest. Once a Sagittarius has decided that you are really able to give them the love that they need without making them feel tied down, they will happily stay. After all, a party is no fun with one guest, and Sagittarius approaches life as the biggest and greatest party of all.
In their inimitable style, Sagittarius puts all their cards on the table — their likes, dislikes, expectations, and so on. They expect honesty and directness in return. Sagittarius hates being lied to and shows their anger through sarcasm versus emotional outburst. They expect their partner to tell them what they are feeling but be aware they don’t keep secrets well. If you share a secret, no matter how vulnerable it makes you feel, don’t assume that your Sagittarius won’t include it in relaying their next tale with family or friends. They don’t do it to be hurtful but suddenly it’s out, and they may think you’re over-reacting or trying to control them when you get upset. Better to be clear about your expectations for privacy when sharing with a Sagittarius.
Sagittarius also expects their partner to be faithful, even though they themselves are among the most flirtatious signs of the zodiac. Their proud nature will keep them from acknowledging their jealousy, but they cannot handle their partner cheating on them. They’ll expect friends to take sides — their side specifically. Infidelity is perhaps the one thing a Sagittarius can never forgive nor forget.
When matched with a faithful and compatible partner, Sagittarius is a very attentive partner who will fight to protect the relationship.
Sagittarius and Sex
Sagittarius is an uninhibited lover who loves exploring the sexual connection between them and their partner. They don’t have much use for any concept of shame when there is so much delight to be had. Curious about certain things? Sagittarius is very happy to investigate them alongside you, judgment free. They are quite fond of spontaneous quickies to keep sparks flying between them and their lover.
In lovemaking, Sagittarius likes to seduce, initiate and be in control. With such strong physical and mental energy, sex is not about emotional union and release. While they are intuitive lovers, they expect a partner to be confident and express their needs openly.
Best Compatibility with Sagittarius
Fiery and free-spirited, the most compatible signs with Sagittarius are other Fire Signs — specifically Aries and Leo, and Air Signs Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius, who help their fiery spark grow to its full potential. The least compatible signs with Sagittarius are Earth and Water Signs — Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces. One fatal attraction is Sagittarius and the Earth sign Capricorn. Personality differences create sexual tension, but once consummated, they’re simply too opposite to make it work.
Keep in mind that compatibility is driven by more than your Sun Sign and its associated Element and Mode. Knowing where the Ascendant, Moon, and Venus appear in your chart and that of your partner or person of interest can help you understand zodiac compatibility at a deeper level as these positions can mitigate or overcome incompatibility at the Sun Sign level.
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