The Dating App Trap
There's a certain dating website that shall remain nameless.
In all its ads, it sells itself as a means of finding your soulmate.
Ahh, true love...
Except...
Well, it's obviously a site for hooking up.
How do I know?
You can tell the intention behind something not in its marketing but how it's designed. In this case, the website let you filter matches by all sorts of things - gender, location, age, salary, education...
All useful stuff for finding a partner.
But also not only height but hair color and eye color.
Only the most vapid, shallow and deluded folks say their soulmate has to have hazel eyes.
For a night of cheap, harmless fun though? Well, that makes a bit more sense.
This trap can show up in your affirmations too.
When you say you want to find 'love' or 'wealth',...